Will he ever let me be?!
Question: Will he ever let me be.?
I was in a 4 year relationship with my ex fiance. We broke up the start of last month as he is in a dangerous gang, i couldn't take it anymore.I also have a 3 month old son with him. We have some of the same friends and whenever we go for a night out and he's there with friends.Although i am still in love with him i know i did the right thing. Anyway whenever i am dancing or just around he never takes his eyes off me, and gets pissed at me and calls me names,then a few seconds later he tells me i look beautiful. He gets into my face alot or grabs my arm if i walk away. My friends are under the impression he is pissed off because am trying to move on. They also think part of the reason he is angry is because he screwed up badly and he doesn't want anyone else to have me.He wants to get me back,and that he must still love me, because he wouldnt be messing with me if he didnt.I told him i'll get a restraining order against him, he told me that doesnt mean s**t to him. I know that i shouldn't be where he is going to be but i never know where he is going to turn up, and when he does i leave but sometimes he follows me to 'talk'.
Please give me some advice if you can, thank you so much Health Question & Answer
Please give me some advice if you can, thank you so much Health Question & Answer
Answers:
You need to make a clean break of it. By a clean break I mean that you need to start hanging out in new places where he isn't going to be. There has to be a few of those. Make some new friends and work on getting your life back for the sake of your child if for no other reason. If you keep going the way you are going he is probably going to hurt you. Been where you are now and I ended up in the hospital. Hope you don't. Health Question & Answer
He will not let you be if you don't take steps to avoid the places he shows up at. You say he is in a dangerous gang. Protect your baby and find a new group to hang out with. I know it is not easy but if you want to move on you need to do this.Health Question & Answer
Ok, the whole Jesus thing mentioned above it bullsh*t. No offence, nothings going to change in your put yourself in the arms of a mythical being. Get the police involved, get the restraining order, and if anything, try to move to a new house/neighborhood. Health Question & Answer
Maybe you need to change the places where you go.? Start going to a better class of place and you will be meeting a better class of men.
If you let this guy continue to harass you he will never leave you alone.
Just because he is angry does not mean that he cares for you it means he does not want anyone to have you and he wants to control you.
He could be pissed because he does not want you to make any decisions for yourself. Health Question & Answer
If you let this guy continue to harass you he will never leave you alone.
Just because he is angry does not mean that he cares for you it means he does not want anyone to have you and he wants to control you.
He could be pissed because he does not want you to make any decisions for yourself. Health Question & Answer
Trust in Jesus and he will pull you through. If you haven't already accept Jesus as your personal savoir and follow him. Follow the way he did things while he was here. We as humans get down sometimes and if you don't have Jesus in your life sometimes youll find yourself giving up. But Jesus can take all the pain that your going through in your life and make it go away. Follow the rightous words of the Holy Bible. Jesus is the way.
32Behold, the hour cometh, yea, is now come, that ye shall be scattered, every man to his own, and shall leave me alone: and yet I am not alone, because the Father is with me.
33These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
John 16:32-33
22And ye now therefore have sorrow: but I will see you again, and your heart shall rejoice, and your joy no man taketh from you.
23And in that day ye shall ask me nothing. Verily, verily, I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall ask the Father in my name, he will give it you.
24Hitherto have ye asked nothing in my name: ask, and ye shall receive, that your joy may be full.
John 16:22-24
If you want to talk im on yahoo right now, and if im not just leave a message i will get it. My yahoo messenger name is livebythegospel
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32Behold, the hour cometh, yea, is now come, that ye shall be scattered, every man to his own, and shall leave me alone: and yet I am not alone, because the Father is with me.
33These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
John 16:32-33
22And ye now therefore have sorrow: but I will see you again, and your heart shall rejoice, and your joy no man taketh from you.
23And in that day ye shall ask me nothing. Verily, verily, I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall ask the Father in my name, he will give it you.
24Hitherto have ye asked nothing in my name: ask, and ye shall receive, that your joy may be full.
John 16:22-24
If you want to talk im on yahoo right now, and if im not just leave a message i will get it. My yahoo messenger name is livebythegospel
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Maybe, in time. If you ever feel unsafe when he is around you should get a restraining order, just in case. It might take more time for him to get over you if he ever does. Maybe you should get some new friends for now and hang out in different circles. You have a three month old with him. Is he helping you with the expenditures.? If not, go to court for child support. You need to be sure if he is right for you or not and act accordingly. No games.Health Question & Answer