Help me I am afraid of an for my boyfriend i think he is a phsycophat?!


Question: Help me I am afraid of an for my boyfriend i think he is a phsycophat.?
my boyfriend likes to watch these movies about mass murderers. i am frightened o get worried, everything is the same type of movies. so last we saw the movies changeling. and when it finished i asked him why do u wanne see these things all the time. I mean i am a lawyer i like investigating movies but not all the time like this. and he said: " O This is nothing, these things happen all the time in Africa" and i was like WTF.?.?!!! and he said yes because its a third world country nobody cares and because this is america they go make movies about it. and i said how can u say such a thing everyone is as horrible everyone is one to many. and then we started discussing and he says "its like u are surprised these things happen these things happen all the time"
and i remember we saw an other movies one time and he also had like this attitude but as clear as today. also i remember once in the past he told me he thinks his father may be a pedophile. Now i am scared I am worried. should i be worried about this, should i find help for him, is he dangerous and if so what must i do to save him from himself.Health Question & Answer


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Trust me on this one I have a Mental Illness and unless he is verbally abusing you he is probably harmless and just has a different taste in movies. On the other hand if he calls you names that you don't like and starts acting out scenes from the movie or starts Isolating you from everyone but him that's when you need to get to someone or someplace safe, if that doesn't work get a restraining order or an order of protection because should he violate it more than a certain number of times goes from: 1. a warning if he is caught, 2. he can be put in lockup 3. It becomes a misdemeanor or even a felony and he will be put in Jail for some length of time. also consider moving out town without him and changing all your numbers and e-mail address and move to someplace that has a three strike law. Oh and by the way is he an addict of some sort.? If so get to an ALANON meeting or a women's shelter and get a background check done on him. One last thing you or both of you can do is go to counseling.Health Question & Answer

I can understand why you feel concerned about this situation. I don't believe you can really change him. I have seen some people with the same attitude. They will not harm anyone but it is part of his personality, lacking any concern, about the problems in the world. Unless, the situation doesn't get personal, he probably would have no feelings. Of course, this is my opinion. If you cannot live with this type of person, I think you should find another relationship. Health Question & Answer

Hey, just because he watches horror movies does not mean he's a psychopath. I like horror, I think it grasps you really well and they're just more exciting (when they're good). But tht doesn't make me a psycho.
Unless he shows his psychosis in other threatening ways, he should be fine.
Anyway, where did you go to law school.? Did you write your own personal statement.? Health Question & Answer

No he's not psycho i know people how get in to movies like that and they sound worse than your boyfriend if i were you i wouldn't even sweat it, its normal trust me:)Health Question & Answer

I think you're exaggeratingHealth Question & Answer

in fact you need help and evaluation, but you never should not know, There are many like you and many like him. If you can not find honesty and talk to him about it. How come you trust all this wrong answer do not know nothing expect to be prejudice.

as wife you would need to find balance and trust support and solution on your own with your loving husband.

You failed!
You and like you do not deserve any additional knowledge, do not know how to deal with it.?
do You.?

What can you do to understand his feeling and be close to him .?Health Question & Answer



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