I need help writing an apology?!


Question: I need help writing an apology.?
I know it needs to be short and straight to the point


This is what I have, but I know it is too long and boring. How can I 'manipulate' her with this message.? (I don't really know what that is, someone told me that is the 'key' to apologies - how so.? How can I do it.?




Hi Jill - hope this is the right email.. if not, completely disregard everything here, please and thank you.


This message is hasty, but if I don't do it now I don't know when I ever will. I've been contemplating writing you for months now. I keep waiting for some light to shine and tell me it's the right moment but I don't think that is how it works. Jill, I owe you so much, more than I'll ever have, but I'm going to begin with a long overdue apology. You and your girls me the world to me. There hasn't been day you haven't crossed my mind. It kills me to remember, I just want to forget all the stupid and hurtful things I said and did so badly, but they won't leave me alone. This summer I was going through a difficult time and I didn't know how to deal with my problems properly. I know that is no excuse for the way I treated you but I hope in time that you can forgive me. You are such an amazing person and it is an honour to have you in my family. I can only hope that some day I can have the privilege again of being in your life. I'm sorry.

I truly am sorry.


all my love,

bb



I am apologizing for being mean to her. She is my cousin (she's 35) - i stayed at her house during the summer (2 weeks) (during that two weeks i ended up telling her about bulimia, sexual, physical and mental abuse - aparently i was rude to her and didn't see it thru my own selfish mind. i haven't stopped thinking about her and i know it is really late but i have to write her an apology, i just have to. i am afraid she will be mad and i've had people tell me to just leave her alone but i think anyone who gets mad at an apology is the mean one, right.?Health Question & Answer


Answers:
Apologies that are sincere come from the heart. If you wrote this with good intentions then this is perfect. Whether or not she chooses to forgive you is her prerogative! At least you know that you have done what you can and now she needs to be the bigger person! Good luck to you both. Time heals!Health Question & Answer

i think its really good, and im sorry things are going bad between u and ur family. I think the apology u wrote her will let her know how u feel and hopefully she will understand.. best of luck, i hope everthing ends up okay! :)Health Question & Answer

Sounds good to me, jut clean up the spelling :)Health Question & Answer

Manipulation is not the key. Sincerity is the key. So, you were all messed up and mean to her. What did you do about it that would make her want to let you back into her life.? Did you get psychological help.? Did you say a thousand "Hail Mary's". Why would she let you back into her life, and be put at risk for you to be mean to her again.? Tell her what has changed.....Health Question & Answer



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