How can I fight this fear?!
Question: How can I fight this fear.?
I know what I want to do as a career. I JUST CANT. So much bad has happened in the past and I am terrified to even try. I know that I will probably "fit in"...it's just it's never happened before. Why would it start now.?.? I don't know what to do. I am so scared. Please what advice do you have for me.? I need it, badly.Health Question & Answer
Answers:
Hi Madison,
You have obviously had some bad experiences in your life which have left scars.
Your career is your future and nothing to do with your past. A new start, a new chance, a clean sheet on which only you have the power to write.
You will always fit in if you make others feel that you are genuinely interested in them. Introduce yourself,and don't talk too much about yourself, just be interested in others.
If your chosen career involves training or a course, remember everyone will be in the same position as you. Nobody will know anyone else and they will all be feeling just as scared as you are.
The best thing about starting out on something new is that nobody knows you, nobody knows anything about you and you have the chance to make a new beginning.
Your past is over and gone. Today is the first day of the rest of your life.
If people in school or college have treated you badly, don't let that influence you. They have already ruined your self confidence, don't let them ruin your future as well!
The thing with careers, is that unlike scchool, if you are not happy you can just walk away and try something else. Nothing lasts forever darling, you have the opportunity now of changing everything for the better. At least give it a try, if you don't you may regret it for the rest of your life.
Take control of your life instead of allowing your life to take control of you.
Good luck sweetheart. YOU CAN DO THIS!
Love mel.Health Question & Answer
You have obviously had some bad experiences in your life which have left scars.
Your career is your future and nothing to do with your past. A new start, a new chance, a clean sheet on which only you have the power to write.
You will always fit in if you make others feel that you are genuinely interested in them. Introduce yourself,and don't talk too much about yourself, just be interested in others.
If your chosen career involves training or a course, remember everyone will be in the same position as you. Nobody will know anyone else and they will all be feeling just as scared as you are.
The best thing about starting out on something new is that nobody knows you, nobody knows anything about you and you have the chance to make a new beginning.
Your past is over and gone. Today is the first day of the rest of your life.
If people in school or college have treated you badly, don't let that influence you. They have already ruined your self confidence, don't let them ruin your future as well!
The thing with careers, is that unlike scchool, if you are not happy you can just walk away and try something else. Nothing lasts forever darling, you have the opportunity now of changing everything for the better. At least give it a try, if you don't you may regret it for the rest of your life.
Take control of your life instead of allowing your life to take control of you.
Good luck sweetheart. YOU CAN DO THIS!
Love mel.Health Question & Answer
If you really lack as much self confidence as you suggest by your multitude of questions, You need a different kind of help than you are going to get in this forum.. Public mental health clinics are free, and will give you more of what you need than I can give you, for the same price.Health Question & Answer
Well, it would help if you gave a little more information about what you'd like to do and what your fear is. At the same time, sounds like you lack self confidence. Try a self-help book or talk to a therapist.Health Question & Answer
just go for it no matter what it happens ok if not then try againHealth Question & Answer
your question is too vagueHealth Question & Answer