I used to cut myself? ?!


Question: I used to cut myself.? .?
I have cut myself a few times last year and once this spring. i am really depressed and upset. I feel like it's all over and no one understands and now i just want to cut. I am stopping myself. Why.? nothing ever stopped me before. also before i never posted questions about it or told anyone. i recently told my best friend that i did it cause she was going to and i stopped her. now i wanna do it again.don't know know what is wrong with me.Health Question & Answer


Answers:
Hey girl.
I know what you been through,it's okay.
Just turn your life around.
First ask yourself why you want to.?
Is it because you're hurt inside or something.?
Next after you find the reason why-fix it.
Talk to a friend,trusted family member or look deep within yourself.
If your sad write or draw your thoughts out.
Get a journal and jot down your life story.
expressing how you feel might help.
After look at how your life is..
Are you drama free.? Do you mainly listen to sad songs.? Do you hang around with people who talk about sad things.?
That's what I did,and after I grew out of that,I changed myself.
I hope I helped you a lil bit.
also,if you belong to a religion seek your god and find yourself again.
Hope and faith will bring you to who you are!
:)
Look for the positive and live to da fullest!Health Question & Answer

Find help, dear. You don't have to tell everyone in the world about it, but at least tell someone that can get you help. What you are doing is definitely not safe, but you are not the only one with this problem. There are others out there that feel the same way that you do. We all have stress and hardships in life (I've had plenty), but you have to learn how to control your emotions and manage stress in a healthy way. Hurting yourself is just adding to the problem. It's okay, you can get through this. Just remember, no problem is so big that it should make you want to take your own life. Be strong. :-)Health Question & Answer

Before you give up on reading this because you think i'm going to offend you, just read. I'm not trying to offend you or anything, i'm actually trying to help you. Maybe some others here have, but i'm not trying to.

No, you're not being selfish, don't ever think that. I don't know you but i'm sure you try your hardest to try to stop this depression. It sucks, I know it does. I've been through it. But i've never cut myself. I have always been scared to. Just like my fear of turning mental or insane. But don't say it's over unless you want it to be. Don't ever say it unless you give up, you're done trying and you're positive life can't give you anymore happiness. At all.
Maybe it's something inside you that just tells you that if you cut, it makes everything less hurtful. In reality, it really doesn't. All it does is causes you a little more pain. But, please, and I mean please, think about it before you do something that you know you would regret. Every life is valuable, even though it might sound so cheesy, it's true.Health Question & Answer

What is wrong with you is what is wrong with everyone- so many people have pain, conflicts and can't find a way to express their feelings. Cutting is punishing yourself. Give yourself a break, cutting doesn't really help , it makes matters worse because it can be totally misunderstood. Sit down, you and your friend and write a list a reasons to cut: then write a list of reason why not. Read them out loud to yourself and each other. Then start to heal. baby steps.Health Question & Answer

well you said yourself that you are depressed. you need to find out what You are depressed about and try to fix that problem or talk about it. Its god that you have stopped yourself and that you have told people. You should defiantly try to stop. you can call hot lines and talk to people who have More experience dealing with issues like this.Health Question & Answer

yah i DO it to but ta=t dosnt mean its right and im tring to stop yah its hard when your temped think of all the good thangs in your life and if you kill you self witch may happen i had a friend and she died becuse of it think of all the people who will miss you and just write it down keep it somewhere safe when your angy just read it over and overHealth Question & Answer

OKAY
First, just know im here for you!
Okay, take a deep breath. (I meAN DEEEEEAAAAAPPP breath!) Think, why am i doing this.? This isnt gonna solve ANYTHING! Since your keeping this in the down low maybe you should just like get out of that happit and join something to occupie yourself clubs sports and stuff! And if you just wanna explode and tell someone about your habbit (NOT PROBLEM) then you should do so. Get someone 2 talk 2. (not any thereepist consiler etc!) cuz they dont know you! U know yourself! MAYBE tell your mom! Or talk to this about your bff u metioned! BE THE EXAMPLE THAT U CAN STOP YOUR HABBIT! Your friend will be like whoah i should stop becuz i wanna help my friend get threw this and she needs me! So ya! I REALLLY HOPE I HELPED!!!!Health Question & Answer

I tryed doing it once but that junk won't make a difference in my life, so i decided to move on and keep fighting... u cant give up, u have to stand up and choose to be happy... believe it or not cutting ur self wont do a thing cept' get u an infection, or loss of blood... so talk to a counselor if u have an urge to do it because it is a mental problem... u cant help ur self. only by talking to others will u be able to actually help ur self... choose to talk...Health Question & Answer

You are going through a phase in your life right now, but you need to find a new way to get ride of all your anger or problems, not by cutting yourself. Life sucks sometimes, but its life. If we all acted like babies and cried every timem something got in our way, we wouldnt be where we are today.Health Question & Answer

theropist.

thats the only way they will figure out why.

all you have to do right now it stay away from knives, of forks or anything sharp.

and maybe but a rupperband on your wrist, and everytime you wanna cut your self, hit your slef with the rubber band 5 times.



and if needed, throw away sharp items...

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it will all be alright, i know you probably feel tempted right now but just keep up the good work i mean c'mon you know that it's a dangerous and hurtful road to go down and you just have to keep telling yourself that some other people will understand you and you are not alone in this world through jesus christ. its very nice that you are there for your friend though and things will get better just remember jesus loves you. :)Health Question & Answer

ok, i used to be sooo dark, its not even funny anymore. i had finally stepped into the light because i believe in god. i always delt with suicide, but people who commit suicide dont go to heaven.

oh and u CAN delete this question if you wanted 2Health Question & Answer

okay this may sound dumb but i mean i do it and its not hurting anyone i seriously dont think that i have to stop
as long as you dont cut to deep
your goodHealth Question & Answer

first of all don't be emo that is a sad resort for self pity and second of all its your concience showing your body the damage your doing but don't be depressed unless your being abused every 10 seconds.. :/ just dont b emo thats not coolHealth Question & Answer

Don't cut yourself, dear.
Everytime you feel like you need // want to cut, call your best friend, or do something relaxing like a bubble bath.
watch a funny movie.Health Question & Answer

See a therapist. You probably think seeing a therapist meant you are crazy but no. You are not crazy, therapist is like your best friend. It really helped me through my hard times.Health Question & Answer

I would recommend counseling for you. Don't cut yourself, there's different ways for dealing with depression.Health Question & Answer

I am a recovering alcoholic myself. I could drink again, but would this make any sense with family that cares about me.? No-brainer..

Stay with the real dull edges; like marblesHealth Question & Answer

serious illness
you need to get help
the disturbance of yourself stopping yourself is your gut and conscience speaking to youHealth Question & Answer

its ok sweety, be calm, i used to do it too. its hard to stop innit.


just replace this habit with another healthier habitHealth Question & Answer

uhhh a lot of things could be wrong with you
maybe whenever you feel like cutting yourself you should masterbate.?
gotta replace one habit with another and this one is betterHealth Question & Answer

wow do not do this any more you could louse a lot of blood and die get infection or somethin can you tell me why emos cut themselves i don't understandHealth Question & Answer

your a depressed person and emoHealth Question & Answer

I just wanted to say it was a REALLY good job stopping your friend! You should be extremely proud of your self!Health Question & Answer

You cut yourself, you hurt everyone, not just you. Dont be so selfish! Think of your family!!!Health Question & Answer

don't do that 2 ur selfHealth Question & Answer

put chains around your wrists :DHealth Question & Answer

HUH!.? More details, please.?Health Question & Answer

please get helpHealth Question & Answer

you shouldnt do that it hurts eveyone around as wellHealth Question & Answer

y would u ever want to hurt yourself.? dont do this to urselfHealth Question & Answer



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