Am I overreacting. I'm posting this again b/c I've only gotten a couple of answers.?!
Question: Am I overreacting. I'm posting this again b/c I've only gotten a couple of answers..?
My boyfriends brother has made comments to me that have made uncomfortable.
I didn't say anything back to him, but I've griped a lot about it to my boyfriend. My boyfriend says that's his sense of humor, I'm being a beotch and a drama queen and being too serious. A couple of things were about my jugs and he jirated his hips once. Today, my boyfriend gave me an example of his brother sense of humor. His brother called his 73 yr old aunt and she told him how cold the weather is. He said I guess you're rocking around naked then! Am I being a prude, beotch, drama queen or what. I hate this guy so much!
He's lived w/ his parents in the country his whole life and is socially awkward with no friends and sometimes has seizures. My boyfriend and family feel sorry for him. I don't! Why am I like this.?
Besides, the bastard buys doughnuts and freezes them for up to two years. How fricken weird is that.?Health Question & Answer
I didn't say anything back to him, but I've griped a lot about it to my boyfriend. My boyfriend says that's his sense of humor, I'm being a beotch and a drama queen and being too serious. A couple of things were about my jugs and he jirated his hips once. Today, my boyfriend gave me an example of his brother sense of humor. His brother called his 73 yr old aunt and she told him how cold the weather is. He said I guess you're rocking around naked then! Am I being a prude, beotch, drama queen or what. I hate this guy so much!
He's lived w/ his parents in the country his whole life and is socially awkward with no friends and sometimes has seizures. My boyfriend and family feel sorry for him. I don't! Why am I like this.?
Besides, the bastard buys doughnuts and freezes them for up to two years. How fricken weird is that.?Health Question & Answer
Answers:
If your boyfriends brother is mentally unstable then the situation may be different, but it sounds like he is just an ***. I would suggest firmly telling your boyfriend that his brothers actions and comments towards you are really offensive and you do not like them. I would nicely ask your boyfriend to talk to his brother for you and ask him to stop making inappropriate comments and gestures towards you. If your boyfriend doesn't want to talk to his brother or feels like it isn't a big deal, then let him know that you are going to speak to his brother about his behavior. I would then talk to the brother in person or on the phone (not online or through an email) and let him know that you feel very upset and uncomfortable with the gestures that he makes towards you and the inappropriate comments that he makes. Ask him politely to please stop this behavior so that everyone can get along peacefully. If this causes any type of problem then you probably need to dump this boyfriend because something isn't right. I think you have every right to feel upset by this behavior and the fact that your boyfriend thinks that you are being dumb is very strange to me. Good luck :)Health Question & Answer
you're just over reacting to something that shouldnt even be bothering you at all in the first place...
there are a lot of people who are just like your bf's brother.. the lacking of discipline, manner and most specially no respect at all..
but then shouldnt bother you at all...
well unless your bf is showing signs of being like his brother...
then you might reconsidering your relationship..
hope this helps..
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there are a lot of people who are just like your bf's brother.. the lacking of discipline, manner and most specially no respect at all..
but then shouldnt bother you at all...
well unless your bf is showing signs of being like his brother...
then you might reconsidering your relationship..
hope this helps..
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The doughnut thing is weird. I've never heard of that.
A 38 year-old guy shouldn't be making unwanted sexual comments. Tell him you think it's sexist and offensive. Tell him you don't think it's funny at all.Health Question & Answer
A 38 year-old guy shouldn't be making unwanted sexual comments. Tell him you think it's sexist and offensive. Tell him you don't think it's funny at all.Health Question & Answer
Okay well...if he wants to freeze donuts let him freeze donuts. Its weird but whatever.
I think he is trying to fit in in his own weird way. It is weird of him to say things like that, but if he doesn't have much social interaction he may have a hard time realizing what is acceptable to say or not. I personally do have seizures, and it can affect your social life. Its unfortunate but it happens.
I think your best bet is to talk to your boyfriend's brother himself. He needs to learn this behavior is not acceptable, or he will have trouble in the workplace or school environment forever.Health Question & Answer
I think he is trying to fit in in his own weird way. It is weird of him to say things like that, but if he doesn't have much social interaction he may have a hard time realizing what is acceptable to say or not. I personally do have seizures, and it can affect your social life. Its unfortunate but it happens.
I think your best bet is to talk to your boyfriend's brother himself. He needs to learn this behavior is not acceptable, or he will have trouble in the workplace or school environment forever.Health Question & Answer
Nah, your reaction is natural :)! You arent being dramatic but people like that exist and you have to decide how you deal with them. The best way to do that is to just not let it get to you. If its offending you, then he's doing something right. Dont worry about it its natural to feel that way! I'm even a guy and I understand what that's like. It makes you feel all awkward sometimes if you're around them because you just don't know what to say! You aren't being weird because you aren't his family so you shouldn't feel bad because he is acting a fool.Health Question & Answer