Could you help me with my jealousy problem?!
Question: Could you help me with my jealousy problem.?
It goes like this...
My name is Carl. I am 17 years old and is somehow metrosexual (im straight). I am always jealous with the looks of others. Whenever I see guys who are more handsome than me, I always think that I am very, very, very unlucky and will feel very depressed. And sometimes, I would like to commit suicide because I am not that handsome and I am also fat.
Could you help me with my problem.? I can't really solve it by my own and I really need support groups.Health Question & Answer
My name is Carl. I am 17 years old and is somehow metrosexual (im straight). I am always jealous with the looks of others. Whenever I see guys who are more handsome than me, I always think that I am very, very, very unlucky and will feel very depressed. And sometimes, I would like to commit suicide because I am not that handsome and I am also fat.
Could you help me with my problem.? I can't really solve it by my own and I really need support groups.Health Question & Answer
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Hey Carl........yeah I know the feeling and in time you will feel different,,,I always felt this way when I was younger.....I always loved the women and well they didnt care much for me....I was always depressed and yeah I had suicidal thoughts......I wish I would have went and talked to a counselor back then because it took along time to get past this on my own,,,I am not sure what advise to give because for me,it sorta happened in one day.I woke up one morning and sat up in bed and just had a thought....I thought,I am so sick of feeling like this and decided then and there....I am who I am..I cant change that and I dont need to care about how others look...I put this in my mind and after a while...I started living it....It took a while more and I started feeling better about me and then I sterted dressing different and then I got more confident and started talking with the girls....looks are not everything....turns out that girls want a guy who has confidence and has good hygiene and is interested in them for more than just getting sex.you see,when you let go...your image of yourself will change...and when your image of yourself changes for the better,others will look at you differently...also I got hobby's to help me...I started working on motorcycles and other hobbies witch you will probably say NERD,but I started coin collecting....yeah I know..lame...but when I stopped thinking about it all the time,then it wasnt so painfull anymore.you see when you feel low about yourself,girls pick up on this and steer clear...you could see A counselor....I wish I would have...the way I felt might have changed faster with help.but I was afraid back then to talk to anybody about how I felt...You have already took the first step...right now and well...Keep stepping....Fix yourself...do whatever it takes...dont do what I did....It took years my way....your only 17 and well that means you have lots of time ahead of you...but take the time NOW to overcome this obstacle....life is too short to waste time unhappy and depressed.....I am glad I did and I am sure my two daughters I have are too....good luck Carl.....I hope this helps a little....just give it time....things dont get better overnight but they will get better....My name Is mikeHealth Question & Answer
You need to go see a therapist. You have body dysmorphic disorder.
Body dysmorphic disorder is a type of chronic mental illness in which you can't stop thinking about a flaw with your appearance
Body dysmorphic disorder is a type of chronic mental illness in which you can't stop thinking about a flaw with your appearance
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