Depression thoughts of susicdie?!


Question: Depression thoughts of susicdie.?
am all alone in germany with my new daugther and the stress is starting to wear on me. Im thinking about killing myself im having thoughts about just ending this pain. I know its bad and i want to talk to someone but im scared to tell anyone, I cant go home either because my baby doesnt have her passport yet. What can i do even if i tell them they wont send him home and i dont think anything else is going too help me stop having these feelings and i honestly think i will kill myself before this deployment is over. Its only been 3 weeks and for some reason i just feel hopeless..Health Question & Answer


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Please don't kill yourself! I am so sorry that you are having such a hard time. Please remember that you are not alone. Other people feel like this too. Your baby needs you, and your family would be heart broken without you. I don't know what sort of resources you have over in Germany but please try to see a doctor and call a friend to come sit with you. You can get help. I know it seems dark right now but there is another side. Things will get better. I will be thinking of you and your family.Health Question & Answer

Not to sound like a smart alec, but the advice I have always heard is that nothing is permanent - except death. And I know you aren't in the situation where you want to hear this either, but do you hate your baby so much that you want her to grow up knowing that her mother didn't care for her enough to stick around and raise her.? I'm not hammering you, just giving you something else to think about instead of your depression.
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You could be suffering from post natal depression .Please go and see the doctor ,tell them how you are feeling -suicidal- they will help you. there is help and there is hope. You can contact the Samaritans on line or if you need someone to talk to before you can see your doctor try one of the on line depression forums or Saneline. Suicide is not the answer ,please there is help out there. I am a depressive of many years and have sought and recieved help so do understand what you are going throughHealth Question & Answer

um ok wow first off get off of yahoo and go see a doctor. and second how about thinking of your kid to it wouldnt be doin them any favors to be put in such a situation and theres a better way out then killing yourself it doesent have to be like that you have a choice and you need to pick the right oneHealth Question & Answer

Death is not the answer...what will your baby think when its old enough to understand.?.? Daddy killed himself.?.? That doesnt exactly scream love...you need to focus on the good and discard the bad! Death is not the answer!! Death is an excuse for people who think the world is too hard...and saying you want to commit suicide is selfish how will your family feel how will they view the situation.?.? Think about others too not just yourself!Health Question & Answer

This is post-natal depression.

Go and see your doctor - print off this post so you don't have to explain.

Ring your own Mom or a female friend and get them to come over to you.

one in 4 women have post-natal depression - you are not alone.Health Question & Answer

I dont understnad where is your husband.?
Anyways, listen woman I dont think you should entertain such thoughts. What will happen to your baby then.? You think she'd be fine growing up without a mother who would love her unconditionally.? What when she needs you the most.? Who is she going to talk to.?
This might seem rude but please dont think about yourself only. Think about this innocent baby girl whom you brought into this world. I'm sure you have heard about how girls go astray and end up dead by 21 years of age because they didn't have any guidance. Don't let this be your daughter. If you are feeling depressed, please talk to a doc. I'm sure they will be able to help you as they are more experienced than people here. Can you go back and spend sometime with your family like your parents.? That way you will take your mind off lonliness.
Do NOT entertain thoughts of suicide. It's useless.Health Question & Answer



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