Why does she do this and too me ? please help?!
Question: Why does she do this and too me .? please help.?
ive known my best friend for four years, shes always told lies but its at the point were its out of control, if summit bad happens to me she has to havr summit worse. my dad commited sucide wen i was a child i find it hard to tell people and i told her and infront of all or friend in class she told my story as "one of her Freinds" didnt mention my name but still, its no good confronting her becasue she turns it around on me and makes me look bad, latly shes telling me shes getting panic attacks and i no shes lieing, has she got a problem please help becasue it gets me down cause i cant trust herHealth Question & Answer
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I know everyone on here is mostly saying to ditch your friend but we both know that's much easier said than done, right.?! I think she should know how what she does makes you feel. If you can't say it to her write it in a letter and give it to her. If she takes it bad then maybe her being away from you is a good thing. She is someone who seems to badly need attention and in a way that's sad for her as she must not get it in any normal appropriate ways when she has to go and lie to make people interested in her. what she did after you told her about your dad is really awful and you have every right to be angry and to tell her so! it might even be a good idea to give her an ultomatum- if she doesn't stop lying etc then you and her will have to spend a lot less time together or just get new friends.
I am sorry about your dad, you sound like a nice, strong minded girl!
good luck!
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I know everyone on here is mostly saying to ditch your friend but we both know that's much easier said than done, right.?! I think she should know how what she does makes you feel. If you can't say it to her write it in a letter and give it to her. If she takes it bad then maybe her being away from you is a good thing. She is someone who seems to badly need attention and in a way that's sad for her as she must not get it in any normal appropriate ways when she has to go and lie to make people interested in her. what she did after you told her about your dad is really awful and you have every right to be angry and to tell her so! it might even be a good idea to give her an ultomatum- if she doesn't stop lying etc then you and her will have to spend a lot less time together or just get new friends.
I am sorry about your dad, you sound like a nice, strong minded girl!
good luck!
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WOW. My best bud of ten years started doing this junk too. Panic attacks that I believe aren't real. Every time I have something going on in life she becomes the biggest "thunder stealer". She made my friends suicide "her" story to share in church. Your situation sound like a carbon copy of mine. But in the past few months I hav e really put alot of distance between us. I have more important things to deal with. I cant deal with hers. Good luckHealth Question & Answer
Let's face it, she is not your best friend! I would tell her that as her best friend that she needs help with her panic attacks and should see a doctor. But as others have been saying, lose her if you can't trust her. There are plenty of others out there who can be trusted.Health Question & Answer
Unfortunately this girls is definately not your friend. As hard as it may be, you need to get some distance here. She looks like a compulsive liar and has very poor judgement. She likely has some significant psychological problems.Health Question & Answer
Dump her *** do you really want friends like that.? The minute she told her friends your story you should have murdered that *****!Health Question & Answer
get rid of her...she wasn't a true friend to begin with...i find girls to be petty and bitchy sometimes and i go hang with my guy friends. try it...you'll feel better...good luckHealth Question & Answer
Time to find a new best friend. One you can trust!Health Question & Answer
she is not a friend , she is a liability...get away quick styleHealth Question & Answer
She's not a friend, she's someone you know at this point. Get away from her and find a real friend. don't buy into her drama.Health Question & Answer
You don't know which 'too'/'to' to use.
Get educated.Health Question & Answer
Get educated.Health Question & Answer
tell her to stop and wait till after christmas and if she still lies a lot ditch herHealth Question & Answer
DITCH herHealth Question & Answer