I am a loser. Cleanse human-kind?!
Question: I am a loser. Cleanse human-kind.?
No one likes me and so I come to complain on yahoo answers
I really feel as if I have no purpose, and high school is really bringing me down.
I want to make an impression to teach these ******* how it feels. I want to break something
I have always been ignored
I would rather be dead
What do I do.?Health Question & Answer
I really feel as if I have no purpose, and high school is really bringing me down.
I want to make an impression to teach these ******* how it feels. I want to break something
I have always been ignored
I would rather be dead
What do I do.?Health Question & Answer
Answers:
Everyone temporarily feels somewhat like you do right now at some point in their lives.. Isolated, Lonelyish, Lost, Devoid of Meaning/Purpose. It is about the transitional time in life when a person is trying to figure out exactly how they relate to the rest of the world and what part they play in it.
Sometimes trying to figure this out is difficult and time consuming and sometimes people feel like because they have not figured it out YET, there is no answer except that there is no place for them, no value in being a part of something to which they do not feel that they belong.
That conclusion can make someone feel a variety of different things towards themselves and towards the world - Often, it is resentment.. anger even.. with its route cause being the sadness that has not been fixed by some grand realization.
What should you do.? Well, obviously you shouldn't do what you are implying...Come to your humanly senses.
What you should do is work on your patience, and creating a more open-mind so that you will be able to realise the answers to all of your uncertainties when they happen to show themselves. Until then, yes, be patient.. And find happiness in the little things that will become more and more important to you over time... A smile, for example... A good movie... A song that you don't want to admit you kinda like... Get your hopes up, but lower your expectations sometimes... Pat yourself on the back... Don't let anyone rain on your "parade," TAKE EVERYTHING LESS SERIOUSLY (sometimes especially people you don't like.. &realise they have had hard times to/have flaws too- some they realise and some they don't)- but recoginise reality and responsibilities with the right amount of lightheartedness to keep you from feeling overwhelmed all the time. Believe that everything will be okay and it will be. Remember the concept of karma.. believe in it and it will show itself in your daily life. Look for coincidences.
And try to work towards being able to love yourself for no reason except for the fact that you ultimately should be your own best friend - a person that you would like to have as your own best friend ideally would be someone that you can trust, who would encourage you, who would laugh with you, especially at the mistakes you make, comfort you, have fun with you.. You wouldn't need to impress this person or worry that they have another side to them. Be that person for yourself.
Do not lash out.. You will not teach anyone any lessons except that you could not figure your **** out. Change something about your own life to fix the problem if you feel you can (be proactive), or wait for time to heal things.. Time does heal virtually everything... Open up, try to have a more open mind.. Try to be more understanding of what feelings are behind the actions of others.? What led them to be the way they are.? How can you avoid the same outcome.? Or acheive the positive ones by learning from the mistakes of others.? Take care of your wellbeing.
Some of the feeling of exclusion, scrutiny, or negativity you feel other people have towards you is at least in part an issue that comes from confidence..
I don't want to be too stereotypical in saying so, but you could try talking to a counseler/therapist or someone in your family or a neighbor about this.. They have probably felt a lot of this stuff before and since they know you would perhaps be able to assist you better. If you do talk to a counseler or therapist, at school-the place you and almost everyone else hates, be careful what you say about teaching a lesson to those bleepbleepbleeps. :-)
Don't only go looking for advice in a person who is just as negative feeling as you are right now, you may only fuel eachother's fires and add to the helpless feelings you are having troubles with already. The way to find any solution is to seek multiple perspectives and several sources.
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Sometimes trying to figure this out is difficult and time consuming and sometimes people feel like because they have not figured it out YET, there is no answer except that there is no place for them, no value in being a part of something to which they do not feel that they belong.
That conclusion can make someone feel a variety of different things towards themselves and towards the world - Often, it is resentment.. anger even.. with its route cause being the sadness that has not been fixed by some grand realization.
What should you do.? Well, obviously you shouldn't do what you are implying...Come to your humanly senses.
What you should do is work on your patience, and creating a more open-mind so that you will be able to realise the answers to all of your uncertainties when they happen to show themselves. Until then, yes, be patient.. And find happiness in the little things that will become more and more important to you over time... A smile, for example... A good movie... A song that you don't want to admit you kinda like... Get your hopes up, but lower your expectations sometimes... Pat yourself on the back... Don't let anyone rain on your "parade," TAKE EVERYTHING LESS SERIOUSLY (sometimes especially people you don't like.. &realise they have had hard times to/have flaws too- some they realise and some they don't)- but recoginise reality and responsibilities with the right amount of lightheartedness to keep you from feeling overwhelmed all the time. Believe that everything will be okay and it will be. Remember the concept of karma.. believe in it and it will show itself in your daily life. Look for coincidences.
And try to work towards being able to love yourself for no reason except for the fact that you ultimately should be your own best friend - a person that you would like to have as your own best friend ideally would be someone that you can trust, who would encourage you, who would laugh with you, especially at the mistakes you make, comfort you, have fun with you.. You wouldn't need to impress this person or worry that they have another side to them. Be that person for yourself.
Do not lash out.. You will not teach anyone any lessons except that you could not figure your **** out. Change something about your own life to fix the problem if you feel you can (be proactive), or wait for time to heal things.. Time does heal virtually everything... Open up, try to have a more open mind.. Try to be more understanding of what feelings are behind the actions of others.? What led them to be the way they are.? How can you avoid the same outcome.? Or acheive the positive ones by learning from the mistakes of others.? Take care of your wellbeing.
Some of the feeling of exclusion, scrutiny, or negativity you feel other people have towards you is at least in part an issue that comes from confidence..
I don't want to be too stereotypical in saying so, but you could try talking to a counseler/therapist or someone in your family or a neighbor about this.. They have probably felt a lot of this stuff before and since they know you would perhaps be able to assist you better. If you do talk to a counseler or therapist, at school-the place you and almost everyone else hates, be careful what you say about teaching a lesson to those bleepbleepbleeps. :-)
Don't only go looking for advice in a person who is just as negative feeling as you are right now, you may only fuel eachother's fires and add to the helpless feelings you are having troubles with already. The way to find any solution is to seek multiple perspectives and several sources.
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Those are feelings many teenagers face, I have faced them myself. It is very stressful being a teenager, but killing yourself doesn't help anything. You're not going to teach anybody anything. You wouldn't be around to see if you made an impression. I know people that have done it and nobody really knew anything was wrong with the person and just talked about how selfish they were to do that to their families and friends and not seek help. Don't let kids in high school get you down. They are kids after all. They will get a reality check after graduation. Just wait and see. Some of the most popular, best dressed ones will end up on drugs and if they're lucky, flipping burgers at the 10 year reunion. You need to seek God. God loves you so much that he sent his only kid who was completely innocent to die a terrible death to keep you from going to Hell. He will give you a purpose, and he would love to have your attention. He feels ignored too. Admit you're a sinner, we all are, saved or not. Believe He did what He did, tell Him you need him. He doesn't expect you to be perfect whenever it is your time to go, because noone is. He just wants you to try to work on your sins and love Him. Thats it. You don't need anyone but Him.Health Question & Answer
You sound just like me in middle school. I had one friend, my sister was a druggie and an alcoholic so my parents were always busy dealing with her and never saw me, and virtually everyone made fun of me for one reason or another. I felt so overlooked and unimportant and I thought it was all so pointless. I seriously considered killing myself so many times, do something so drastic that they couldn't ignore me anymore.
In the end (at least so far), I didn't. Things got better. Somethings still suck. But that's a part of life.
You have a decision in front of you. Do you keep going or do you give up.? It's your choice but think it through before you do anything. Yeah, if you kill yourself they'll all notice you and remember you. But it'll be in a pitying slightly pathetic way. Is that what you want.? Besides high school only lasts four years or so. Then you can move on and forget all the bastards.Health Question & Answer
In the end (at least so far), I didn't. Things got better. Somethings still suck. But that's a part of life.
You have a decision in front of you. Do you keep going or do you give up.? It's your choice but think it through before you do anything. Yeah, if you kill yourself they'll all notice you and remember you. But it'll be in a pitying slightly pathetic way. Is that what you want.? Besides high school only lasts four years or so. Then you can move on and forget all the bastards.Health Question & Answer
Stick it out, kiddo. Trust me.
I was quiet and fat in highschool. I lost my best friend when I was 16. I was horribly depressed. Sure, I had friends, but I always felt like I didn't belong because I wasn't "popular"
Now.? I look on Facebook and see the "popular" kids aren't doing much with their lives. They're the same people they were before, except now - no one gives two shits about them. The "unpopular" kids are the ones that have cool jobs, live downtown, travel, are creative, and seem to be having a fun life. It's poetic justice, really.
As for me (i.e. former fat, quiet girl) - I am now an Event Planner and a promo model for Miller. Two things I would have NEVER seen myself doing 7 years ago when I was in HS.
It all works out in the end, trust me.Health Question & Answer
I was quiet and fat in highschool. I lost my best friend when I was 16. I was horribly depressed. Sure, I had friends, but I always felt like I didn't belong because I wasn't "popular"
Now.? I look on Facebook and see the "popular" kids aren't doing much with their lives. They're the same people they were before, except now - no one gives two shits about them. The "unpopular" kids are the ones that have cool jobs, live downtown, travel, are creative, and seem to be having a fun life. It's poetic justice, really.
As for me (i.e. former fat, quiet girl) - I am now an Event Planner and a promo model for Miller. Two things I would have NEVER seen myself doing 7 years ago when I was in HS.
It all works out in the end, trust me.Health Question & Answer
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just try to be yourself and if they don't like you for who you are then just move on. i mean you only have high school once.Health Question & Answer