I was about to leave and so i went say good bye to my friend and when i got in i saw her masterbating! & im 13?!


Question: I was about to leave and so i went say good bye to my friend and when i got in i saw her masterbating! & im 13.?
Im 13 and i like that girl but after i saw that she wouldnt talk to me anymore and every time i talk to her she keep on walking away or just say she has go somewhere(PLzz answerHealth Question & Answer


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she's jst really embarassed i know i would be. jst grab her by the arm and explain to her u don't care and to go on like it nvr happened that u ahve forgotten about it and u want her to talk to u. Health Question & Answer

It's very, very common for someone to masturbate, even at the age of 13. It is unfortunate, however, that your friend didn't have the good sense or self-respect to keep the matter private. Since she did not, and you walked in on it, she is now embarrassed and no doubt afraid you will betray her secret, etc. The best thing to do is to just keep trying, always be friendly and let the incident go without mentioning it. I would imagine that eventually she will realize you aren't holding it against her. Health Question & Answer

she is obviously embarrassed, nothing is wrong with what she was doing and you should let her know that, everyone experiments like that. Just give her the space she needs right now and in time everything should be alright, but don't tease her about it or else she never will talk to you againHealth Question & Answer

She's probably REALLY REALLY embarrassed. Give her awhile and she'll get over it. Just don't talk to her for a while. Maybe you can give her a note saying "I'm really sorry I'm sure you're embarrassed but I still like you and I'll leave you alone for awhile if you want." Health Question & Answer

She was rude for not waiting until after you left for her to do that. she's probably embarrassed that you"caught" her. Don't bring it up to her, just say "hi" and keep your conversations simple, and she might start opening up to you eventually Health Question & Answer

She is sooooooooooooooo embarrassed by what you saw.

Firstly resist the temptation to tell anyone....
Secondly, give her a chance to calm down.
Lastly, after a week or so, approach her and act as if nothing has happened. Don't mention it to her again.

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I can see how that can be awkward for you both. But all you can do is give it time after a while it will be something you two will laugh about. but First you might want to tell her it was a mistake and you were in the wrong place at the wrong time.Health Question & Answer

Dude, well I'm sure both of you were highly embarrassed. I would say that if you value her as a friend, tell her that you guys should move past that. You really do have to tell her that you still want to be her friend.Health Question & Answer

Uh. I dont really understand the question.? You were about to leave, you saw her masterbating... then you say that you like her and she doesnt talk to you anymore.? Well she's just embarrassed. Try talking to her.Health Question & Answer

Just tell her through a note or email or get someone else to talk to her for you that you didnt care and that you like her and can over look it shes just embarassed thats all and probably thinks you think badly of herHealth Question & Answer

Although it's a normal, healthy practice, it's also a pretty private thing.
She's embarrassed! Give her some time, don't mention it and I'm sure everything will return to normal between you.Health Question & Answer

i think maybe she feels ashamed that you seen and the fact your so young, give her time to realise what she did is not uncommon and then reaproach her, tell her what you seen wont affect you friendship.Health Question & Answer

ok shes obviously embarrased . . if you really want to talk to her tell her to stop for a second and listen to you.Health Question & Answer

sooo. that isn't a question. what do you need to know. If you like her just tell her that it's okay and you don't care what you sawHealth Question & Answer

embarrass her.. Next time she ignores you or walks away just yell out as shes walking away "Are you ignoring me because I saw you masturbating!.?!.?" she would be pwned.Health Question & Answer

She's just embarrassed. Let her know it's ok and no one has to know. It could even be your chance to tell her you like her if she doesn't already know. Just say stuff to make her feel comfortable. Health Question & Answer

bloody hell bet u was well embarrassed is this girl 13 to if so what the hell is she doing masturbating shes to Young to feel this way she should be out climbing trees and playing with Dolly's not with her selfHealth Question & Answer

it's normal. she's just embarrassed. what's your question exactly.?

just pretend it didn't happen! :p

don't mention it to her.Health Question & Answer

jesus that must be so emarrasing. okay, so shes probably ignoring you because shes embarrased. try telling her you do it too (even if you dont) so shee wont feel so stupid. Health Question & Answer

Don't worry, she's just embarassed... Wouln' you be that too if you were her.? Well, just tell her it's no big deal and act relaxed.. ask her out if you want... You'll laugh about it someday.Health Question & Answer

im 13 to.. and im a girl and she's probably just shy..or she does have to go some where.. if she didn't like you then she would roll her eyes and talk a lot of trashHealth Question & Answer

She's probably really embarrassed, I would be and I'm 20!
Just give it a little time to blow over and don't tell anyone what you saw. That will only embarrass her more.Health Question & Answer

Well tell her that u guys need to talk and tell her tht you dont care that u saw her that shouldnt effect your freind ship!!! Tell her that u guys should just 4get about it.Health Question & Answer

lol
shes just really embarrassed that you saw her.
tell her that you masterbate too and she wont be as embarrased.

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just say something like "ru worried about (w/e day this happened on).? it's not a big deal. i don't care" or something along the lines of that.Health Question & Answer

Ouch, she is probably reallllyyy embarrassed. This one i think is for you to deside no one can choose for you.Health Question & Answer

shes just embarrsed is all and probably worried that youll tell people dont take it too seriously she probly just need some time to think and cool downHealth Question & Answer

She is just embarrassed, not angry. Just talk to her and tell her that you don't care.

Or maybe she thought you were spying on her :SHealth Question & Answer

First of all apologize to her and make her listen to u. then say u have told nobody!!!! then re assure her. then ask can u be friends and she will love u m8Health Question & Answer

This might sound crazy, but 91% of teens masterbaite .
So I would just confront her with a open mind.
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you didnt ask a question.

but uh tell her that you understand that everyone has their needs and you swear on your life you wont tell anyone

(except everyone on Y!A that is)Health Question & Answer



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