Should I do anything about the smokers/drug users in my class?!


Question: Should I do anything about the smokers/drug users in my class.?
I know a few alcoholics(and if i heard correctly, they're also marijuana users) that I have the same class with. This really worries me because they're constantly talking about the "best" ways to smoke their weed or how to hide their alcohol when they're going to homecoming. It's sad that they're even trying to introduce their other friends to the drugs.

I know this is a common problem at pretty much all high schools and even among some of my friends. A "friend" the other day came to ask if I wanted to get high during homecoming. I told her that I thought smokers were gross and that I didn't want to be looked upon as someone gross. Was this too harsh of an answer.?


Those girls really scare me.. how can I help them without talking to them.?


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No, your answer to your friend was definitely not harsh. If they are a true friend, they should understand and respect your opinion.
As for "doing something about it", my advice would to be just to steer clear of the whole situation, stay out of it. It will only put you in a very unnecessary situation. Plus, you already said they scare you, so you probably shouldn't get in any trouble with them.
And I know that you want to help them, but you can only do so much. For most it will just be a phase, yet unfortunately for some they will never learn.
Stay focused on yourself, and keep staying out of it, including the alcohol and marijuana.Health Question & Answer

Your going to deal with this your hole life. Your going to be put in situations where the other person is doing something bad and you know about it. It all depends on how you want to handle it. Personally for me I wouldn't do anything for I wouldn't want to deal with High School drama it sucks we all know. Everyone is getting drunk or high at homecoming it's almost like High School tradition even though it shouldn't be. However, if you feel you need to tell someone than you should.

That answer was not harsh at all. They should know you don't do that so they shouldn't have asked you. Health Question & Answer

STAY AWAY FROM THEM! You already know that is the right thing to do! You just say NO! A friend does not ask if you want to get high with them. Who cares what they think of you, everyone that knows them thinks the same thing about them even if they are not brave enough to say it! You don't need to say or do anything, someone will figure them out and know what they are doing, Give yourself a pat on the back for being responsible, smart and yourself! You did the right thing!Health Question & Answer

Just say "No Thanks" to offers to use substances. If they make you too uncomfortable, avoid them. Do not get drawn into their problems/drama. Drug users are very manipulative. Don't let the screw up your life. Keep to your goals and move forward. You can not save the world. I graduated high school in 1972. A number of my friends, even from childhood, started using heroin. Nothing anyone could do would stop them. It can be painful, but cut them out of your life. Hopefully, most young people want to be healthy and sane. Find your friends among those.Health Question & Answer

honest answer - you can't. you're never going to change their minds, and if you try to, you might make an enemy or two. people don't generally like being told how to act, and even if what they're doing is obviously bad from them (alcoholism), theyre not going to listen to you if you're not a close friend. don't worry about other people's lives, they're gonna do what they're gonna do. and on a side note... marijuana can be a fantastic drug... hahaha but i understand where you're coming from.Health Question & Answer

I dont think you should really get involved. Maybe you can start a group or a club to try to help people get out of drugs and make good choices. If one of your best friends start you should try to persuade them to stop. They will get hurt if they keep on doing this. You can make posters or signs saying facts about how drugs can harm you and put them up around school... It was not harsh what you said, its the truth.Health Question & Answer

your making the right choices by saying no and turning your nose up to it, so good for you!! unfortunately there really is no way for you to help these people besides trying to make them quite, which might as well just straight up include talking to them, or telling your security officer about what you have been hearing.

fact is, if they aren't willing to respect their bodies, then it's hard for you to do anything to help.

hope all is wellHealth Question & Answer

you should tell someone about it like maybe one of your parents or something and see what they think. Cos i know you could be in a pretty sticky situation if you told someone something that them people didnt like and they start doing stuff you dont like to you. But yea you should definitely go and find someone you know will have advice that you can use.Health Question & Answer

tell the principle to search their backpacks and lockers *evil laugh*


why the fcuk r u friends with girls that scare u.?! if i were u id let them destroy their own lives, get knew friends, and sit back and watch those other girls end up in prison! :D

hell there was a guy at my school that EVERYBODY hated! last month he showed up to a football game drunk and had pockets full of weed................they all crash eventually :)

anyway GLHealth Question & Answer

Stay away from them, is best policy. As for helping, state your thoughts on the issue, but remember each their own, and we all have choices. For we are still a FREE America, United we stand, Divided we fall, and we are at war. Not counting close to another depression, so mf, MAWOY. okHealth Question & Answer

I dont think that was too harsh, just keep strongly denouncing it, you wont be able to do much for the ppl who have already decided to follow that path, as sad as it is, they rarely ever make the decision to take good adviceHealth Question & Answer

im totally for marijuana and achohal and if you would have said that to me i probablly would have gotten a little affended but i would have gotten over it and being high is the best feeling ever!!!!!!!!Health Question & Answer


ummm what grade are you in and where do you live.? at my school there were only like five kids that didn't drink or smoke if their asking you if you want some then say no. they will respect your choice. just let them if their not like their hurting you.Health Question & Answer

Well you can't really help someone that isn't willing to help themselves.
All you can really do is stand back and just hope that they come to you.

If you talk to them something might happen.Health Question & Answer

good for you for standing up to them, but there's not much you can do besides let them know that you don't do that and would prefer that they don't talk about that stuff around you.Health Question & Answer

plain and simply.? you don't dont get involved just stay away the most golden advice i could ever give whether you choose to listen or not is up to you. if you don't listen then i really hope you know what your doing.Health Question & Answer

You can try and talk to them but they are probably in their rebellious stage. Dont be a snitch though. Thats the only thing you will hear about until you graduate.Health Question & Answer

Marijuana is the safest f*cking drug out there. Be glad they aren't doing meth or coke. Just stay away from them if you think weed is so horrible. You are incredibly misinformed.

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I'd talk to your principle or guidance counselor. Or someone you can trust that has the authority to do something about that!Health Question & Answer

It's common risk taking behavior.

When you hit university, very very different.Health Question & Answer

I think it could of been a bit harsh
You could just talk to them about what happens to your lungs over time when you smoke
and when smoking pot how many brain cells you lose and stuff like that
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Don't stress about it, sooner or later they'll suffer from an overdose and if they live they'll probably learn a lesson.Health Question & Answer

dont do anything, if you were of the christian religion and a atheist kept on bugging u about how god isnt real ect you would get pissed.let them suffer the consequencesHealth Question & Answer

no you were open and honest and that is a good thing.

who cares about what they do with their lives...its not affectin yoursHealth Question & Answer

dude below me is a fag.

and no let them ruin there lives on there own.
its not your fault there not smarter.Health Question & Answer

That's really messed up. I don't have any drug users in my school because its a private Christian.Health Question & Answer

No. You should mind your business. If you don't want to do it, then don't.Health Question & Answer

Best thing u could do is stay away from them b4 u get beat up home gurl.Health Question & Answer

turn them in and i commend you and much praise to you for not getting into the drug sceneHealth Question & Answer

you should mind your BI. these girls can't be helped if they do not want itHealth Question & Answer

Tell the principal that your absolutely positive they have that kind of stuff.
Your principal will help you out and just tell him to keep you anonymous!
They need to know information to help kids that are doing that stuff.Health Question & Answer



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