Should I confront the man who raped me?!
Question: Should I confront the man who raped me.?
When I was 9 years old my step-fathers best friend raped me,He is back in New Brunswick Canada,and I want to know why he did that. Should I confront him.? My husband says that I should just forget it,but I can't. What do you think I should do.? Health Question & Answer
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Confronting him could have its own set of risks that the original assault did not have. Do NOT confront him without another person, preferably a police officer, present. If you are an adult now, be prepared for people to ask "Why did you wait so long.?" Health Question & Answer
If you really feel that you need to talk to him about it then do so. But don't make it a serious, threatening conversation type of thing. But, your husband is right though, you really should try to let it go, but if you can't and it has majorly effected you life, like I would think it would, then maybe you should confront him. But please, please, please be careful about it.Health Question & Answer
What I think you should do is search in your mind and find the good that came out of that and then sit down with your husband and explain it to him. What you are doing is holding on to the past; is it helping you at all.? I could tell you the reason, but it has nothing at all to do with you. You see, you are married now and you don't want your past to haunt you. You would be like a ghost to him that came back to haunt him. I know it is hard to let go, but you must. You are not a ghost.Health Question & Answer
I'm sorry to hear about that.
I think you should confront him, because I would want to as well.
Confront him and then turn him into the police, because hon you can't allow him to get away with it.
If you don't, you'll wish you did later.
Good luck
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I think you should confront him, because I would want to as well.
Confront him and then turn him into the police, because hon you can't allow him to get away with it.
If you don't, you'll wish you did later.
Good luck
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No, but I would turn him into the police so he doesnt do it again. I don't know if the time limit has expired yet depending on how old you are. He should pay for what he did.Health Question & Answer
U could still turn him to the police.U were nine which makes him a pedophile by Canadian law. So u would be doing smth good by cleaning up by takin him off the street.Health Question & Answer
I would turn him into the police.Health Question & Answer
i say you shoot him.Health Question & Answer