Why does she need toys?!?!?!
Question: Why does she need toys.?!.?!.?
My girlfriend needs multiple toys to pleasure herself. WTF.?.?.? She says it's not me and that no man has ever got her there without them (including me).
Is this normal.? If so, I will stop worrying about it so muchHealth Question & Answer
Is this normal.? If so, I will stop worrying about it so muchHealth Question & Answer
Answers:
Yes, its often normal. Imagine the clit as a tiny penis (which is kind of is since that blob of tissue becomes a penis for men, a clit for women in the womb)
You have lots of surface area. She doesn't. And as for the g-spot, not all women have it. While intercourse will feel like a great massage in the vagina, there really aren't a lot of nerve endings in there. The clit it it.
And a vibro toy hits the spot.
At the same time, overuse of toys can dull the nerve endings making it harder and harder to reach orgasm.
So no, it has nothing to do with you. And don't worry about it. Her orgasm is her responsibility.Health Question & Answer
You have lots of surface area. She doesn't. And as for the g-spot, not all women have it. While intercourse will feel like a great massage in the vagina, there really aren't a lot of nerve endings in there. The clit it it.
And a vibro toy hits the spot.
At the same time, overuse of toys can dull the nerve endings making it harder and harder to reach orgasm.
So no, it has nothing to do with you. And don't worry about it. Her orgasm is her responsibility.Health Question & Answer
It is ABSOLUTELY normal. There is nothing wrong with you or with your partner! In fact, women who can have an orgasm through intercourse alone are in the minority.
Remember, the most sensitive part of a woman's body, her primary sexual organ (as opposed to reproductive organ) is the clitoris, and the clitoris just doesn't get much stimulation during sex. Some scientists think women who DO come during intercourse have a really deep-rooted clitoris, so that they are getting it essentially rubbed from behind by the penis (the real explanation of the "g spot". Sadly, not all women are built that way!
Why not work on ways to involve yourself in her orgasms.? Have her show you exactly how she does it - you might want to have her sit in front of you so you're at the same angle she's usually working from. You can also get a small clit "butterfly" vibrator so that she can have clitoral vibration during oral sex or intercourse.Health Question & Answer
Remember, the most sensitive part of a woman's body, her primary sexual organ (as opposed to reproductive organ) is the clitoris, and the clitoris just doesn't get much stimulation during sex. Some scientists think women who DO come during intercourse have a really deep-rooted clitoris, so that they are getting it essentially rubbed from behind by the penis (the real explanation of the "g spot". Sadly, not all women are built that way!
Why not work on ways to involve yourself in her orgasms.? Have her show you exactly how she does it - you might want to have her sit in front of you so you're at the same angle she's usually working from. You can also get a small clit "butterfly" vibrator so that she can have clitoral vibration during oral sex or intercourse.Health Question & Answer
no offences maybe your just not big enough for her
have you ever thought of getting you stuff enlarged
have you talked to her about her preferences and such
you should be able to have sex with her
and please her well without the sex toys
do you guys have sex without the toys
does she ever reach an orgasm that way
there's lots of questions one can ask to give formal advice
but man just try... your best!!Health Question & Answer
have you ever thought of getting you stuff enlarged
have you talked to her about her preferences and such
you should be able to have sex with her
and please her well without the sex toys
do you guys have sex without the toys
does she ever reach an orgasm that way
there's lots of questions one can ask to give formal advice
but man just try... your best!!Health Question & Answer
How old are you, guys.?
I was once married to a girl who had a dildo that I didn't know about.
I accepted that because our sex life was pretty active. I wasn't jealous of it because she only used it when I wasn't around. Your situation is different. I would have a problem if my woman felt I couldn't please her without a sex toy. Now, don't misunderstand me. Sex toys can be fun. I suggest that you openly incorporate her toys into your sexual activities.. Don't compete with it. It sounds like you'll lose so bend it to your advantage, instead. Otherwise, it'll drive you nuts and ruin your relationship.Health Question & Answer
I was once married to a girl who had a dildo that I didn't know about.
I accepted that because our sex life was pretty active. I wasn't jealous of it because she only used it when I wasn't around. Your situation is different. I would have a problem if my woman felt I couldn't please her without a sex toy. Now, don't misunderstand me. Sex toys can be fun. I suggest that you openly incorporate her toys into your sexual activities.. Don't compete with it. It sounds like you'll lose so bend it to your advantage, instead. Otherwise, it'll drive you nuts and ruin your relationship.Health Question & Answer
I guess be the first to accept it if you really like it but its going to take alot of work on security and self-esteem issues with urself. What ur thinking as a man is normal because it makes u wonder if your not enough or inadequate. Don't worry. It's maybe an addiction, habit, routine on her part that she's grown accustomed to. Just learn to have fun with her with it... meaning tease her with it.
Have fun and keep ur head up.....no pun intendedHealth Question & Answer
Have fun and keep ur head up.....no pun intendedHealth Question & Answer
watching oprah one of her guest dr. said that it's not normal the problem is that she has used them too much and now is becoming desensitized. the only way to fix it is to stop using them and wait. toys were ment to spice up the relationship not in place of it.Health Question & Answer
Sex toys give a lot of pleasure to some, may be most woman, specially the vibrator. Is it normal.? I think so. Don't worry about it. It will be more enjoyable if you do it to her.Health Question & Answer
Dont take it personally. Some women cannot get off with penatration. Have you tried oral on her.? or maybe shes not as sensitive as most women so she needs the vibrations.?Health Question & Answer
i dunno whats considered normal but i think she's alright to do so, maybe you should just try to be the firstHealth Question & Answer
I have no idea, little fella.Health Question & Answer
probably because the toy is better than you..
its harsh, but trueHealth Question & Answer
its harsh, but trueHealth Question & Answer
There are girls like that... yes. If you work on perfecting your oral, that might work.
There was one girl I could only succeed with sometimes after a long time with my mouth or hand. Even using the average vibrator was iffy sometimes and took a long while. It was starting to be more challenging than fun. Finally bought a Hitachi Magic Wand. That thing is CRAZY. Highly recommended.
madgecko's answer was very good, but I can't quite get with the her orgasm is her responsibility thing... Where there's a will there's a way. I would certainly think being a good sex partner involves considering your partner and learning what they like and need. Everybody's different.Health Question & Answer
There was one girl I could only succeed with sometimes after a long time with my mouth or hand. Even using the average vibrator was iffy sometimes and took a long while. It was starting to be more challenging than fun. Finally bought a Hitachi Magic Wand. That thing is CRAZY. Highly recommended.
madgecko's answer was very good, but I can't quite get with the her orgasm is her responsibility thing... Where there's a will there's a way. I would certainly think being a good sex partner involves considering your partner and learning what they like and need. Everybody's different.Health Question & Answer