Not to sound weird, but how many times does it take to have anal sex before you become loose ?!


Question: Not to sound weird, but how many times does it take to have anal sex before you become loose .?
it was just a question my friend had recently, and i wanted to find out .Health Question & Answer


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The first answerer honestly made me laugh, but in all seriousness that is the way to think about it.

I definitely do not want to sound like an anal-sex advocate lol - NOT my thing. But I am a sexual health peer educator, so it's important to relay a few things.

The most important things with anal sex is relaxation, lubrication, and desire. If a persons body is relaxed, their muscles will not tense up against any "incoming objects". When the sphincter tightens, it would cause great pain with something trying to make it's way in, you know what I mean.? When the body is relaxed, it shouldn't be a painful experience. Having said that, lubrication is crucial to make the process easier.

The anus should never EVER be "loose". People who have "too much" anal sex, however, can cause damage to the muscle around the anus, and this is a bad thing. They could lose control over their bowel movements, and..... yeah. Nuff said.

I just wanted to also put it out there that it is a complete myth that Gay man practice anal sex more than anyone else. For some reason... everybody's doing it. lol. Hope this helps some.Health Question & Answer

"Sex is something that we learn throughout a lifetime."

If sexuality is a continuing education, a lot of us are scrambling to make up course credits. And in a realm that's clouded by ego, myth and advertising that preys on anxieties, getting the facts about sex can be difficult but thank goodness for Yahoo answers.

Anyhow, anal sex should not hurt if you do it correctly. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it is possible to enjoy anal sex as a safe and fulfilling part of your sex life. Some people however may never like it, and their wishes should be respected.Health Question & Answer

Loose is not the same as relaxed. Maybe she just needs to learn to relax those muscles at the appropriate times. Stretching it does not sound like a good idea. I am not a fan of anal sex, but who am I to judge. If it turns you on, so much the better. There are many hazards from anal sex you should know about and I think stretching yourself to get loose is certainly one.Health Question & Answer

Too late on the "not to sound weird" part. You're there.
If you really want to know you'll have to try it for yourself. I've never tried it, and my wife (ever the party-pooper) (pun intended) refuses to let me even contemplate the idea.Health Question & Answer

Ummm, never! The muscles back there are pretty strong! My friends and I are pretty open with conversations and Ive never heard of anything like that happening.Health Question & Answer

there's too many variables to say, like how thick the guys penis is, how much lube you use, or how many strokes he throws at your per sessionHealth Question & Answer

I'm sure it's different for everyone.Health Question & Answer

lol it depends entirely on the person.. a good few i would thinkHealth Question & Answer

tell your friend that she doesnt want to be 'loose' in the place where her fecal matter comes out ofHealth Question & Answer

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Is that a place you really want to be loose.?Health Question & Answer



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