Im scared. please help?!


Question: Im scared. please help.?
im scared i might be pregnant.
ok so i started my period for the first time in december on the 15. and i had sex for the first time last sunday which would be january 18. i havent started my period again and im scared. i used a condom but then we went at it again without it. but he would pull out so no spurm would get in me. but i dont know. i dont know what to do. and i am really young and dont want to tell my mom. im just scared so please help.Health Question & Answer


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You can buy pregnancy test strips at a pharmacy or the pharmacy section of a large supermarket. No one will ask questions. Use the strips as directed to on the package.

You need to learn some things about pregnancy and STD's. There is sperm in the seminal fluid that comes out of a man's penis before he even enters you and all during intercourse. Pulling out early does not work to prevent pregnancy. It only requires 1 sperm to fertilize your ovum (egg).

Condoms are only 86% effective at preventing pregnancy even if they are used as directed. Using a condom is not being "safe". Birth control pills and using a condom in addition to this is the safest way. BC pills do not protect against STD's. Since a condom is only 86% effective at preventing pregnancy it can't be more effective than that at keeping you from catching STD's.

Sex feels good and all of your b/f's will want to do it but you are taking chances with your future and possibly your babies future. Of course if you catch HIV it is all over for you.

Especially at your age, if a boy will not be your b/f unless you have sex with him then he is really not concerned about you, at all, no matter what he says. Why not wait until you are old enough to take care of a baby if you get pregnant. Wouldn't it be nice to have a husband before you have a baby so that you have both the financial help and emotional support both you and your baby will need.?

I hope that you're not pregnant and this was just a wake up call to you. God bless you honey. There are people that love and care for you. I care about you too.Health Question & Answer

You're 12 and you're already sexually active.? That's very young to start having sex. This should probably be an experience to learn from, you shouldn't just give it up right away. You're still a child, enjoy your childhood and stop worrying about the adult world until you are one.

Other than that,everyone seems to be jumping straight to conclusions. Why don't you see someone at your local Planned Parenthood. Your period could just be late, I remember I didn't get my period for a few months after my first period or after I lost my virginity. Don't freak out just yet but talk to someone at the Planned Parenthood and enjoy being a kid.Health Question & Answer

First of all theres a chance you pergers. Having sex unprotected even if he pulls out can cause pregnancy. Pre-*** contains sperm too. Theres also a chance that you may not be pregers. You have just begun your period and you are irregular. It is very common to skip periods and be late for them. You should tell your mom what happened and get on birth control and get some condoms ASAP. Please be responsible!Health Question & Answer

buy a pregnancy test asap, and start using the pill AND ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!!!!!!!!

It's not that hard, hopefully this is a lesson learned.

On a less harsh side though, talk to your mum or someone about it, if you are pregnant. And make sure you take a few pregnancy tests just to make sure because sometimes they can be wrong. Don't leave it too late, because if you do, you mightn't be able to get an abortion.

I hope it works out :)

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be calm.... when i got my first period, it didn't come back till several months. when girls first start, its usually irregular. BUT, pre *** may got gotten inside of you. should have thought before your actions.... buy a prego test.

good luck!Health Question & Answer

alright its ok jus stay calm talk to the boy u nocked up b4 anything an dnt say anything tell your 100% sure so go buy lik 4or5 different pregnancy tests an after 3 or 4 months of not havin your perid u have to tell your mom or bad things could happen to youHealth Question & Answer

Yeah, pulling out after the second time isn't going to work. Sounds like you are way to young to be having sex. you don't sound very responsible. Maybe you should wait a while. Don't give it away.Health Question & Answer

Yeah, you are right, you are really young. And by the way, it's SPERM NOT SPURM.Health Question & Answer

get out of this relationship NOW.
you are 12.

this will **** up your life forever.Health Question & Answer

I don't think you are but just go to a storeand buy a pregnet test result thing.Health Question & Answer

well, the first 2 years of your period aren't steady.
buy a pregnancy test.Health Question & Answer

take the pregnancy test but i believe that the chances are rare -Health Question & Answer

stop having sexHealth Question & Answer



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