What people dont tell you about being a mum? Struggling with the natural and the rational.?!
Question: What people dont tell you about being a mum.? Struggling with the natural and the rational..?
There seems to be this secret club of mums. I would really like to be in on it. I am 23, married and very broody- although trying to start a career as a dentist this year (my husband is a teacher.) it is just such a powerful urge i have to be a mummy. I know that it isnt all rosy- and I wonder if anyone can let me into some gory bits- i imagine your lady bits arent as attractive to him anymore- what about other things.?
My husband wants us to wait for a couple of years- so we will have been married 4- but then he doesnt want to wear condoms, even the extra thin ones i have got him- and I have med contraindications to pill/ injection etc.... I know withdrawal isnt the best method- and I am slightly hoping to fall preg.
I am struggling with the rational and the natural urges and broodiness. please help!Health Question & Answer
My husband wants us to wait for a couple of years- so we will have been married 4- but then he doesnt want to wear condoms, even the extra thin ones i have got him- and I have med contraindications to pill/ injection etc.... I know withdrawal isnt the best method- and I am slightly hoping to fall preg.
I am struggling with the rational and the natural urges and broodiness. please help!Health Question & Answer
Answers:
He sounds as if he wants his cake and to eat it!
The gory bits - discomfort in later stages of pregnancy.
Little sleep, endless dirty nappies and washing. A fussy demanding little person dominating your life who won't apologise for being sick over your best outfit and will scream loudly for attention/food/not liking being dressed/not wanting a bath etc etc etc.
The dreadful worry when they are ill and can't tell you exactly what is the matter, the decisions you have to make about and for them.
It is all worth it though, hope you get your wishHealth Question & Answer
The gory bits - discomfort in later stages of pregnancy.
Little sleep, endless dirty nappies and washing. A fussy demanding little person dominating your life who won't apologise for being sick over your best outfit and will scream loudly for attention/food/not liking being dressed/not wanting a bath etc etc etc.
The dreadful worry when they are ill and can't tell you exactly what is the matter, the decisions you have to make about and for them.
It is all worth it though, hope you get your wishHealth Question & Answer
well if he wants to wait a couple years he should start to wear the condoms i know the broodyness ur talking about and its normalHealth Question & Answer
Speaking as a Mum and Gran I love my children ~ but you both have to want them ~
Good luck I am sure you will be a great Mum one dayHealth Question & Answer
Good luck I am sure you will be a great Mum one dayHealth Question & Answer