I feel like a failure because?!
Question: I feel like a failure because.?
I am 17 have had sex and have never had an orgasm. I've tried through self stimulation but I've just never had one :[ All of my friends have apparently had one but not me. it makes me cry sometimes..Health Question & Answer
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NO!! you are not a failure. First of all a lot of women never really reach orgasm. Some cant reach orgasm through vaginal sex, some cant through oral ( my best friend cannot orgasm orally and barely can vaginally) some women just dont realize that they are so embattled mentally over having one that they cant relax enough to have an orgasm.i could orgasm through self stimulation but I could not reach orgasm while having sex until I found the correct partner a year after I had started having sex but could ( I was 18 when I lost my virginity) and then I found out that I am multi-orgasmic. now i can come just about anyway I can be stimulated. And some of your friends might be lying about their orgasms because like you- they think something is wrong with them. Relax. It just might take time to find what works for you but your not abnormal. Try some different things..toys..how you masturbate. Try a water messaging head....fantasizing. One day it'll happen.....Health Question & Answer
Do not feel like a failure
really
I know it's disappointing but some females don't reach orgasm until their thirties
It's perfectly normal that you haven't accomplished it
It may take time to get your G spot to respond how you want it but when you find the right stimulation with a penis or toy then you will know what to do
Don't cry
read some cosmos lol
Really there's nothing wrong with you (:Health Question & Answer
really
I know it's disappointing but some females don't reach orgasm until their thirties
It's perfectly normal that you haven't accomplished it
It may take time to get your G spot to respond how you want it but when you find the right stimulation with a penis or toy then you will know what to do
Don't cry
read some cosmos lol
Really there's nothing wrong with you (:Health Question & Answer
you're a female right.? anyway, you're probably with the wrong guy. lotsa guys out there who just have sex for instant self gratification, and release... well, you've got to look for a guy who'd want to pleasure you. and you've got to loosen up. you've got to enjoy what you're doing. you've got to feel every touch and sensation... and, let a guy go down on you... make him work!! =)Health Question & Answer
You can't blame yourself it's the guys you've been with that you should blame. You need to be with a guy who you are very attracted to mentally and who is also good in bed. someone who can actually give you an orgasm. I don't mean to sound gross or perverted but that's my opinion.Health Question & Answer
i am 14, i think you should not cry over something like that also your friends could be just saying that and i think you should not be having sex because your only 17 and you could end up pregnant so get an education first than worried about orgasms.Health Question & Answer
ive never gotten one from a guy. just keep trying. one day when you stop thinking/worrying about it, it will probably let it happen. dont cry. its hard for women to get orgasms anyway.Health Question & Answer
A lot of women don't get an orgasm from sex. Your friends might even be lying. Most girls need some other kind of stimulation. You'll get one eventually when you feel more comfortable and with the right person. Don't worry you're definitely not a failure. It's pretty common.Health Question & Answer