Is he too good to be true?!
Question: Is he too good to be true.?
I have been with my boyfriend 10 years this year. Im 25 and madly in love with him. He is an FDNY firefighter and since 9/11 after losing alot of people close to both of us & him having a ceiling collapse on him, He has changed his out look on life & really lives for the moment. I work in a top hair salon the city & the traveling on the subway is starting to get to me and wear me out, im thinking of getting a job near our place in the Bronx just to be nearer him. He will sometimes even suprize me by coming to my job in his work gear just to see me. Last year when we were engaged we broke up for almost 2 months after i lost my dad(who was also a firefighter) i couldn't deal with it and i knew it wasn't fair on him so i broke up with him, But he was there for me all the way through it & never left my side.We are back together now and he has told me he NEVER wants to lose me again & he really wants us to get married but i thought i needed more time after the loss of my dad, But now i really wanna marry him. He is amazing to me he treats me like im the only girl in the world & the only thing that matters and will sometimes even sing to me at a party or somewhere. I fall more in love with him every time i see him & know that i will NEVER leave him again. I know it may sound stupid but sometimes i cry thinking of how much i love him. Im just scared of being this happy as my whole life has been a whirwind of drama, being the youngest in a big family with older siblings, alcoholics in the family, fights, losing our baby, most my family are firefighters so i've been to alot of funerals & i also lost my cop brother last year & lost my mom 2 years ago etc. We have little stupid fights if im annoyed at something but he goes out of his way to make me laugh & not be mad at him, like doing silly things. How do i go about letting him know that i wanna marry him, i know i should just tell him but he keeps wanting to make it special. I keep thinking i dont deserve all this happiness. Help!
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Answers:
Sounds like you two were made for each other. He wants to be near you because he is afraid of losing you or (losing his life) and not being with you.
Sounds to me like you need to go ahead and plan to be married and just do it.
All couples have fights and this is something that being together will help you work out.
robin
married for 30 yearsHealth Question & Answer
Sounds to me like you need to go ahead and plan to be married and just do it.
All couples have fights and this is something that being together will help you work out.
robin
married for 30 yearsHealth Question & Answer
Just marry the poor guy already! You got a one in a million man, get married! Congratulations!!!Health Question & Answer
Honey, stop worrying, if this is real, it will last. Just wait on God to tell you what to do, and He will show you. This guy sounds absolutely wondorful and i wish i had himHealth Question & Answer
AWWWWW ^_________^
I love hearing about cute relationships.
Sounds like mine and my partners relationship, though we've only been together 2 years.
Just talk with him about how you love him and want to spend your life with him. He'll get the picture =]
Goodluck!!!
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I love hearing about cute relationships.
Sounds like mine and my partners relationship, though we've only been together 2 years.
Just talk with him about how you love him and want to spend your life with him. He'll get the picture =]
Goodluck!!!
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