How do you get over your first love?!


Question: How do you get over your first love.?
its been over a mth now,
Okay this guy, we dated for a mth and a wk.
he came 4hours to my cheer comp. and then we stared dating.
he was my first everything, except kiss&sex.
but he cheated on me in the end, and then we had some fun together and then slept with my at the time bestie. and yet,
i still miss him.
why.?.? WHAT AM I THINKING.?
its like my heart loves him but i would never want to go back to him.
& i can tell he misses me.. but he has a gf. and i dont like him anymore. but its like my heart does. help.?Health Question & Answer


Answers:
i understand exactly where you are coming from.
i broke up with my first love in october and he still seems to fall into conversation at least once a day and things still remind me of him.
we were only together for a few months and he was my first time - i know that was too quick but i was intense, after him i have been with two other guys (only made out) and am going out with a guy tomorrow:)
time is a great healer.?
just put yourself out there and start talking to other guys, also if you got god friends, just spends so good girly quality time with them and you feel less for him as the days go by...xHealth Question & Answer

first loves are really difficult to get over. only time heals the pain. in the meantime, find something to distract you! find a new cute guy to pursue (sure, you might not like him as much as you like your ex, but it's a distraction), find a new hobby, work on improving yourself in some way that your ex will really admire- then HE'LL be sorry that he lost you, and you can have the satisfaction of denying him.Health Question & Answer

There's really no way to "forget" about your first love, just relax and try focusing on something else, sooner or later you'll find another love, but just don't be easy and sleep with a boy until you know your love for him will be worth while, take a break from dating, and try focusing on every day problems, don't let this boy worry you, you've given him to much!Health Question & Answer

Oh, I'm so sorry. I'm in that exact situation. An easy and simple thing to do is to go out and meet new people. Every time you think about him, you just have to remember your self respect.

Give this lady an email, she wrote a book called "dating without drama," and she's an expert on this:
paige@datewithoutdrama.comHealth Question & Answer

experience, and page parker.Health Question & Answer

if u think about it humans and animals weren't designed to stay with one person for their whole lives. they are supposed to go around trying to keep up the popualtion, which is why we are here, to reproduce. thats why people cheat. People now a days become closely attached and cant let go. my friend has the same problem. they went out for 2 months and he broke up with her. she was distraught. ur gonna get over it. ur love isn't supposed to end as soon as u break up. dont worry.Health Question & Answer

You never get over your FIRST love at all... Not even when your 50! You still will think about it and get butterflies. I think that the reason right now its still strong is the infatuation with him that has a hold on you.
Chip up! You'll find a new infatuation...Just don't look for it and it will find youHealth Question & Answer

trust me it goes away....when i broke up with my cheating gf who i was with since 6th to 8th grade i missed her so bad and i just felt like crap and sad but TRUST ppl who've gone through it, it goes away.

sometimes i still think about her but not like in a liking way...i cant stand her!

we were together for tht long then the next day she got w/someone else!

but yea it wont last that long. just dont pay attention to him :DHealth Question & Answer

i totally understand. it took me months to get over a guy and the things he did to me. he cheated with my best friend too. but hes not good enough for you. i didn't get over it til i found a guy that was actually worth my time.Health Question & Answer

well the person you love is mostly the guy you think about the most. Well it depends on if you still love him and can forgive him. If u think u could like him one more time you should ask him how he feels about u. Maybe.? idkHealth Question & Answer

it's happened to me.
it takes time. you'll find someone else. it hurts just surround yourself with people you care about and you'll get over it.Health Question & Answer

I know how that feels. Instead of thinking about his heart, think about the qualities he doesn't have like i.e. respect, thoughtfulness (like he doesn't care if your hurt), etc.etc.Health Question & Answer

ExperienceHealth Question & Answer

you can get over your first love by getting a seond love.Health Question & Answer

ur an idiot


he was not your first everything


go cry


you will get over him quickerHealth Question & Answer

sorry for being mean (not really)
i am in da sam positionHealth Question & Answer

A year and a half to three years, you should be over it. Time solves these things, emotions are stronger than reason betimes.Health Question & Answer

my friend cried over a guy for 7 months .. and she still will always love him she said .. when he got another gf; she cried so much..

get a second love-

it is really hard to get over your 1st.Health Question & Answer

man if i knew that answer i wouldnt have the same problem as you. can you plz answer my question.?Health Question & Answer

Get a picture of him, buy a gun, and shoot the picture in face/nuts.Health Question & Answer

Focus on school. period. But to answer your question, usauly when you find another person it gets easier.Health Question & Answer

Me and my 1'st love have been together onand off for 4 years, i could never get over himHealth Question & Answer

Try to not think about him, but if you TRULY miss him , tell him how you feel :)
xoxo, SkullprincessHealth Question & Answer

Umm Umm Maybe you should find someone else! If u still like him Make him Jealous with thatHealth Question & Answer

MY FREAKIN BRAIN!Health Question & Answer

You need to go out and date other guys who arent assholesHealth Question & Answer

honestly, and i speak from personal experience...

you never truly get over your first love.
you'll always love him in some way, shape or form.Health Question & Answer

i would like 2 help but im having a promblem just like that with a girlHealth Question & Answer

get a second love.Health Question & Answer

its hard to get over ur first luv but i didnt really even cry. the quicker u move on the easier it is. i kinda had teh same thing happen but i would still say yea if he asked me outHealth Question & Answer

omg, i know what you are going through, girl. it took me months, but changed my email and phone number so i wouldn't have to be reminded of him. i'm sorry, but the guy you described sounds like a total jerk who doesn't deserve even a millisecond of your time. i can say this because much later after my breakup, i realized how all the crap he put me through was just to get in my pants and was in no ways an act of love. my advise, find someone who will treat you right and who will love you for all the right reasons. i did, and i am in the happiest relationship of my life with a great guy who loves and respects me for who i am.Health Question & Answer



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