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how much trouble do you think i would be in if my parents found out i'm pregnant.?
i asked a question earlier if it was wrong to be having sex at fifteen and my friends said they would say it's my fault if i got pregnant an the only reason i asked that is because a little while ago i found out that i am pregnant and i haven't told my friends because i'm afraid of what they will say!.

and i am scared to death and there is no way i could hurt this baby because it's mine and i would probably end up wanting to kill myself if i killed my own baby because it's a part of me and my boyfriend and i am just deathly afraid but my boyfriends not. WHAT SHOULD I DO.? i'm at least three months and i know this because i thought i had the stomach flu but it still hasn't gone away so i'm guessing it's morning sickness well i know that now. and my stomach is starting to get bigger and my mom keeps asking me why should i tell her.?Health Question & Answer


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they will be disappointed at first but will warm up to it. yes you should tell your mom. i told my aunt because she was the closest to me. i was 15. you need to tell her. you need to see a doctor for regular visits for babys and your health. also have some support there with you if you are afraid.Health Question & Answer

You really need to tell her. Of course she will be upset when she finds out, every parent would be - but she is your mother, and I'm sure that she loves you very much. She will learn to accept it. Then, you really should tell your boyfriend, it's also his baby, so he has a right to know. also, after you tell your mom and boyfriend, you should tell your closest friends. They will eventually find out, and you don't want them to find out from someone else. Although they may be emotional when they find out, if they are really your friends, they will support you and offer you help.

After you have told all of the people that need to know, make sure that you set up a doctor's appointment with an OB/GYN. They will take care of you throughout your pregnancy and deliver the baby.

also, you should start thinking about what you are going to do with the baby after it is born (keep it or give it up for adoption). The struggles that teenage parents face are enormous. You must care for the baby and support it financially. If you are not able to do this, then you really should consider adoption. There are tons of wonderful couples that are not fortunate enough to be able to have children. You could give them and your baby a lifetime of happiness and love. If you do consider adoption, remember that you can handpick the couple that adopts your baby, so you can rest assured that her or she is going to the best people.

I wish you the best of luck. I truly hope that everything works out in everyone's best interest. I am praying for you!

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I think you know the answer to if it is wrong or right just by what you know now. However it is what it is and you made the choices that you did. You can't change the past! Now is the time to step up, suck in that pride and do what is right for your baby. The truth will hurt at first but it will get easier. You need your family's support. Just remember it's not just about you any more. You have your baby's health to think about. You said you couldn't do anything to your baby but not doing anything because you are scared can do harm too.Health Question & Answer

First, you MUST get to a doctor asap. You need to be taking care of this baby and making sure both of you are healthy. I know it's scary, but you've gotta tell your parents. They will probably be upset, but they will most likely get over it and want to help you through this. PLEASE get to a doctor soon, though. There are vitamins you need to be taking and certain foods/activities you should be avoiding. If you want to have a healthy baby, you need to get to a doctor and start taking responsibility for yourself.

It will be hard, but if you don't tell them and ignore what's going on it'll be even harder because you could lose your child.Health Question & Answer

Yes I think its wrong to have sex at 15 and it was wrong for me to do so at 16 and I ended up pregnant also. The best thing to do is have a talk with your mom and hopefully she will do what a real mother does and support you and yes she will most likely be upset in the beginning. As far as your friends go if they were true friends they would feel the same way your mom should feel upset at first but then understanding and hopefully provide some emotional support. You should see a doctor asap. And please don't think about harming yourself, thats not the answer realize that you made a MISTAKE and now the only thing you can do is learn from it and take care of this innocent child.Health Question & Answer



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