Why do i seem to piss off the man i love? please help, mature answers?!


Question: Why do i seem to piss off the man i love.? please help, mature answers.?
Im 25 years old and have been in a relationship with my partner for a very long time. I absolutely love him. Im a hairstylist and a dancer(hip hop mostly) & i love dancing. He is a firefighter and can be shy if he doesn't know you too well where as i will talk to anyone, but we both have a lot of friends. If we are on a night out and music is being played i will sometimes be the first on the floor dancing with my friends, then i feel like i cant stop as i enjoy it so much. My partner will just stare at me and stay in the back round with his friends,then when i go back to him he doesn't be very chatty to me and can look like he is pissed off at me.I notice the pissed off look when im dancing, so i go back to him and just hug him or try kiss him but sometimes he will just keep talking to his friends. I don't know if i am doing something wrong, am i.? please help as i hate the idea of him being mad at me!.? i know its in the wrong section i just want honest mature answers, ThanksHealth Question & Answer


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Ask him if he thinks you are being to suggestive, when you are dancing. Guys love when their girl is the girl everyone else in the room wants to be with, but they need for her to make it clear that he is the only guy for her. When you are dancing, it is very easy for people who don't know you to get the wrong impression. When you are dancing (not just after), be sure to make it clear to every guy in the room who you are with. Don't dance suggestively with other guys, and take a lot of breaks to go over and be with your man.Health Question & Answer

If every time you go to a party you leave him, then he probably thinks that you don't like or respect him; especially if you are dancing with other men. Shy people typically don't like to be left alone.

Do you like dancing or dancing with people other than your partner.? If it is dancing, compromise. Don't be the first one on the dance floor; wait a few minutes and take him with you.Health Question & Answer

if ur dancing with other guys id be pissed, but he should be out there with at least for a little. I cant dance worth a damn and my girl is like you, she LOVES to dance (bounce in my opinnion haha) so i dance with her a bit and thats it. its give and takeHealth Question & Answer

he might be pissed off if u dancin with ova guysHealth Question & Answer

idk, i wish i could helpHealth Question & Answer

if he had a brain,hed dance with u,not glare at u.hes jealous because ur dancing with a bunch of people,without him,yet hed rather chat with his friends than join u.u wont want to hear this as hes been with u a long time,but take this from a guys point of view-hes a jerk.he wants u standing next to him as he chats with his mates,like a quiet little doormat.he gets to have fun,u get to basically stand by,waiting for him.thats what he wants.if u dare dance or socialise,he glares like ur being disloyal.what a loser!find some guy,who,when he goes out with u,is present for YOU,not just reating u as an accessory he carries about,expected to do his bidding and not ur own.someone who truly loves u will engage WITH you,not treat u like a beverly hills starlet treats her chihuahua-something u take with u,that is expected to do as u say.the standing with his mates and glowering at u is nasty and emotionally abusive.get a clue,girls-dont take this behaviour-its not "love"-its OWNERSHIP-am i right that as long as u do what he wants,he acts kindly toward u,but when u express or act on,any desire of ur own,then hes angry and cold and disengages from u.?abuser,controlling.stay away-as ur parents might say,u can do better!if u had a daughter,would u choose this man as ur future son in law,or would u want her to find someone more mature/reasonable.?think of it that way.if a guy is out with a girl,they should dance together.if he takes u out,then lets u just stand around listening while he talks to his pals-then hes really out with THEM,ur just there as decoration or eye candy.Health Question & Answer

You already know the answer. You spending a lot of time dancing with your friends pisses him off. When you come back and try to hug him and kiss him it comes over like an apology but also an admission that you know he didn't like you spending so much time dancing with your friends, but you did it anyway.

If the friends you refer to are male then he is probably jealous as well as pissed off and you also know that.

But I guess you would prefer to be told that you are doing nothing wrong even though you know exactly what you are doing.Health Question & Answer



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