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Question: Please Read! (Woman Only).?
hello this thread is about masturbation i probaly put it on the wrong thread so i am sorry , i am a 15 (nearly 16) year old female.. But i was wondering how you masturbate.. I was wondering what the most comftable way of doing it, is a vibrating massager good.? Please answer as soon as possibleHealth Question & Answer
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Yes, Masturbation is healthy, normal and a great outlet for girls your age who have hormones bouncing all over the place - sorry not just girls your age - all of us girls..
None of us can tell you exactly how to masturbate.. It's a trial and error thing..
I first masturbated and orgasmed at age 12 or 13.. I first tried actually inserting a finger and it didn't feel good...... I tried rubbing my clit, but that was too much and too sensitive.. I then tried a method where I pinched the vagina lips between my fingers (left hand left lip, right hand right lip) and open and closed them quickly...... I used this method for years until I was your age and was able to get my first sex toy...... I got a normal 5 inch or so vibrator (it was orange, and I miss it) - I then tried using it again inside me, like a penis - but again, no good...... So I would just rest it on the side of my clit - and it could make me orgasm in 15 - 30 seconds flat...... Every time.. Although I am in a happy relationship with a guy I love very much, I still enjoy masturbation -because no one knows how to touch me like me..
It's a private thing so you don't have to share what you do with your body with anyone - but you need not feel weird or embarassed to masturbate..
Girls too often have sex with guys and they just let the guy do what he thinks she would like - no way - no way - no way! What is the point of even having sex if you aren't going to gain the most from the experience.. Once you learn how to please yourself you will be able to teach your partner how to please you......
And remember, sex does not equal love......
Good luck and have fun!
Don't get discouraged, just try different methods..
Make sure you are relaxed and close your eyes, allow your thoughts to wander to things that turn you on..
And if you have a hand held shower head, that also can feel very good and make you reach orgasm......
Health Question & Answer
None of us can tell you exactly how to masturbate.. It's a trial and error thing..
I first masturbated and orgasmed at age 12 or 13.. I first tried actually inserting a finger and it didn't feel good...... I tried rubbing my clit, but that was too much and too sensitive.. I then tried a method where I pinched the vagina lips between my fingers (left hand left lip, right hand right lip) and open and closed them quickly...... I used this method for years until I was your age and was able to get my first sex toy...... I got a normal 5 inch or so vibrator (it was orange, and I miss it) - I then tried using it again inside me, like a penis - but again, no good...... So I would just rest it on the side of my clit - and it could make me orgasm in 15 - 30 seconds flat...... Every time.. Although I am in a happy relationship with a guy I love very much, I still enjoy masturbation -because no one knows how to touch me like me..
It's a private thing so you don't have to share what you do with your body with anyone - but you need not feel weird or embarassed to masturbate..
Girls too often have sex with guys and they just let the guy do what he thinks she would like - no way - no way - no way! What is the point of even having sex if you aren't going to gain the most from the experience.. Once you learn how to please yourself you will be able to teach your partner how to please you......
And remember, sex does not equal love......
Good luck and have fun!
Don't get discouraged, just try different methods..
Make sure you are relaxed and close your eyes, allow your thoughts to wander to things that turn you on..
And if you have a hand held shower head, that also can feel very good and make you reach orgasm......
Health Question & Answer
Masturbation is having sex with the only person you'll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second..
One thing you can do to find out is check out this webpage:
.coolnurse..com/masturbation_howto..htm" rel="nofollow">http://www..coolnurse..com/masturbation_ho......
Read the page all the way through, and try some of the things suggested (including the "extras" linked at the bottom).. Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you...... it's fun.. Sooner or later, you'll have an orgasm, and they get better each time if you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again..
It can take anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach orgasm...... both of these are unusual but normal, and anything in between is just fine..
Just before orgasm, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it's not quite the same, and when your orgasm first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your vagina and then through your whole lower body.. Then very quickly your clitoris, your vagina, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you..
During all this, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control.. You might "squirt" or "ejaculate" a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't worry, it's not pee).. The whole time, it's just about the best feeling there is..
(Everything you "might" feel or do above isn't always going to happen...... some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable..)
As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, and you might feel sort of like having a nap...... or like just lying there and letting your mind drift...... or even like doing it again..
It's not something that happens often, but it *might* happen that there'll be no interruption at all between orgasms, and it can feel like one single orgasm that lasts anywhere from 30 or 40 seconds to several minutes..
Have fun and don't worry.. Masturbating is normal and healthy, and learning what pleases you sexually is good for you...... especially because you'll know what to tell your man about how to please you when you have sex..Health Question & Answer
One thing you can do to find out is check out this webpage:
.coolnurse..com/masturbation_howto..htm" rel="nofollow">http://www..coolnurse..com/masturbation_ho......
Read the page all the way through, and try some of the things suggested (including the "extras" linked at the bottom).. Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you...... it's fun.. Sooner or later, you'll have an orgasm, and they get better each time if you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again..
It can take anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach orgasm...... both of these are unusual but normal, and anything in between is just fine..
Just before orgasm, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it's not quite the same, and when your orgasm first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your vagina and then through your whole lower body.. Then very quickly your clitoris, your vagina, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you..
During all this, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control.. You might "squirt" or "ejaculate" a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't worry, it's not pee).. The whole time, it's just about the best feeling there is..
(Everything you "might" feel or do above isn't always going to happen...... some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable..)
As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, and you might feel sort of like having a nap...... or like just lying there and letting your mind drift...... or even like doing it again..
It's not something that happens often, but it *might* happen that there'll be no interruption at all between orgasms, and it can feel like one single orgasm that lasts anywhere from 30 or 40 seconds to several minutes..
Have fun and don't worry.. Masturbating is normal and healthy, and learning what pleases you sexually is good for you...... especially because you'll know what to tell your man about how to please you when you have sex..Health Question & Answer
Everyone has different opinions on what feels good for them.. Try whatever you like--hey its your body, and you will eventually find something that feels the best for you.. Health Question & Answer
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