Sick and Tired of the confusion lol?!
Question: Sick and Tired of the confusion lol.?
Okay so on more than one occasion I have been mistaken for the opposite gender... I'm 20 years old. Like at costco some woman in line behind me called me 'young man' I mean, I am pretty petite, not very tall and I do have a short haircut, think victoria beckham, but it's feminine. Maybe it's the way I dress.? I do tend to wear dark colors and stuff, not too into the whole girly flowers and pink stuff. I'm more of a Dimmu Borgir and pool playing type, but I act like a girl I wear make up and I even have *gasp* boobs lol! nyone else have this happen to them.? I love my short hair and my style, it just gets pretty silly when I keep being mistaken for a dude lol. Enough already!
Here is a pic, so I can get your opinions, do I look like a guy.?
http://i454.photobucket.com/albums/qq263...Health Question & Answer
Here is a pic, so I can get your opinions, do I look like a guy.?
http://i454.photobucket.com/albums/qq263...Health Question & Answer
Answers:
The Skull Cap and piercings and the skinny body are a bit androgynous, especially under the loose-fitting shirt. You have a nice, narrow face and wispy blond hair - so no clues there.
(Dont get me wrong - you are very cute, fashion model beautiful in fact). But you dont have the layer of fat in your face, hips that help determine gender at a glance.
People take their clues from the clothing if they cannot tell from your face.
I had 2 daughters with similar problems. One started buying the Hoodies and purse with the skulls - and pink bows on top to give people a clue.
The other - well, I had to break my wait-until-you-are-10 rule for ear piercings for her because she kept being thought of as a boy. (Shes a tall, athletic California blond now).
My advice - just enjoy the confusion you cause. Being un-expected makes you interesting.
And if someone really annoys you - just quietly whistle that song from The Wizard of Oz "If I only had a brain". (You would be surprised at how many people dont get the insult).
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(Dont get me wrong - you are very cute, fashion model beautiful in fact). But you dont have the layer of fat in your face, hips that help determine gender at a glance.
People take their clues from the clothing if they cannot tell from your face.
I had 2 daughters with similar problems. One started buying the Hoodies and purse with the skulls - and pink bows on top to give people a clue.
The other - well, I had to break my wait-until-you-are-10 rule for ear piercings for her because she kept being thought of as a boy. (Shes a tall, athletic California blond now).
My advice - just enjoy the confusion you cause. Being un-expected makes you interesting.
And if someone really annoys you - just quietly whistle that song from The Wizard of Oz "If I only had a brain". (You would be surprised at how many people dont get the insult).
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She must needs glasses or something. Haha.Health Question & Answer
you look like chris crocker, lol...Health Question & Answer