I've had sex with my fiance twice since the first of july. And he says he just doesn't feel like its not me?!

ok did you mean to say he just doesn't feel like it but it's not my fault.?...ok so this could be a major problem or nothing at all...first if its truly all him and he's being truthful then he needs to get a physical...his hormones could be out of wack....his testosterone could be very low and when that happens you see a big decrease in sex drive..and if its not treated(just need a simple blood test to find out and then some injections of testosterone) he could get physically weak and then depressed.....so that is one thing.....other things could be guilt because he has someone else....or he has an addiction problem and cant get it up so he makes an excuse...he could just be an asexual person (not into sex)..but then again you've been together for 3 years and this is something new....perhaps he has fallen out of love ( i know that hurts but better to know now than to settle for this and feel stuck and miserable for the next...however long you choice to...you've already done this once,) ..i dont know why after 3 years he would just all of a sudden get tired.?!....maybe the fireworks are gone which can be sad but then again if this "honeymoon" stage is all over then it just means you're moving on to the next where it's not all lust but a realtionship built on things more than sex,...but see this also means that its not just all bout him and his feelings...women tend to do that..this involves you too....dont forget that..you're probably focusing all on him and what is wrong with him and is it me that you forget that if he is no longer making you happy either or that sex is very important to you and you cant cut back or settle for going without...then that is a big problem in a relationship and you probably shouldnt go forward with it....talk to him and hope for the truthHealth Question & Answer

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90% of men's functional problems are in their heads. It's not likely that he's tired ALL the time.

Either he's no longer attracted to you, or he has another woman, or something is messing up his head so bad that he can't function.

You have to sit him down and talk to him - straight out, serious, and private.Health Question & Answer

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Boy oh boy do I know that feeling, Whenever I tried to find out what the problem was, he would get irritated with me.As it turned out in my case he was having an emotional relationship with a woman at work. He swore it was not physical. We tried to work it out but in the end we went our separate ways. If you value you relationship, get him to open up to you about whats going on. He may be worried about his job or about money, due to the economy being so bad right now. Surprise him by greeting him in a sexy outfit when he comes home or, get him to take a scented bath with you. Give him a sensual massage. Shake things up some and see what happens. Good luck! Health Question & Answer

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Wow--I am so sorry. That must be really hard. The only way to know what's going on is to talk to him. Don't accuse or yell or guilt trip him, just ask him to be honest with you. But be prepared, you might not like the answer. Good luck! I wish you the best.Health Question & Answer

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maybe he's cheating.?.?
let's hope not though.

guess all you can do is talk to him.
good luckHealth Question & Answer

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Maybe his other girlfriend is tiring him out.Health Question & Answer

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Talk to him and find out whats wrongHealth Question & Answer

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