I feel kinda dirty. Is this normal?!


Question: I feel kinda dirty. Is this normal.?
I am a 17 year old virgin and I was in a car with this guy who I know from school and he was giving me a ride home (I insisted that he can drop me and he didn't force me to go in the car with him). But anyway he showed me his dick while we were in the car. And now I kinda feel weird like almost ashamed and I feel kinda dirty like I was raped. Can anyone explain this.?Health Question & Answer


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YOU shouldn't feel dirty. That guy was/is a creep, there is nothing wrong with you. Depending on your relationship with the guy, you might want to talk to someone about it. If you don't know him well at all, you might want to look into some research or something because what he did is sexual harassment, possibly even more. Hell, even if you DO know the guy, that's a pretty sleazy thing for him to do, especially if you didn't want him to. Health Question & Answer

You werent raped...well eye raped or sexually assulted he would have had to touch you, Its called indecent exposure to a minor and if you tell the police well will have to regester as a sex offender and his life will go to hell.

The dirty feeling is just that a dirty feeling it happens when you are exposed to things you always were told are wrong and evil (a girl seeing a penis, a guy seeing breasts) you will get over it in time though...and be sure if you have kids that you tell then nudity isnt bad..we're all naked...just some more then others.Health Question & Answer

Hon he's just a jerk. There is no reason for you to feel dirty or ashamed because you did absolutely NOTHING wrong here. Guys like that are complete losers, its obvious he knew he could shock you so he went for it. Just avoid him in the future and you will be fine. Hang out only with people who you know you can trust. Good luck!Health Question & Answer

If you didn't do anything with him you shouldn't feel dirty at all... There are a**h***s like that everywhere. The only time you should feel weird is if you are still hanging around with the guy. If you have never seen one, than that would explain it too. But other than that don't worry about it girl!=) Health Question & Answer

Its going to happen for you to feel uncomfortable because u didn't expect that to happen.. But def distance yourself from him. Its not good for you to be around people you would do that for no reason. Just keep your cool an know that unless you really know an trust the people don;t get into cars with people. Because u never know what can happen to you.. Be safe! Health Question & Answer

you definitely were sexually assaulted

you should talk to someone older about it like maybe your mom or councilor.

if you don't take any action now he's gonna think your an easy target and might do something worse. stay away from him and his friends until something done about it.. maybe you should talk to him and tell him that that was a total creep move.

hope it helpsHealth Question & Answer

It was an unwanted, somewhat sexual experience. You weren't prepared, and it wasn't exactly a nice environment.

Tell his parents what he did, tell your parents what he did, and don't hang out with him anymore.Health Question & Answer

no HE is the dirty one. dont talk to him, what a perv. i think it would be unsafe to get in the car with him ever again, he might try more next time.Health Question & Answer

don't feel ashamed,you didn't do anything wrong.

he made you uncomfortable.HE was wrong,not you.Health Question & Answer


He was a jerk, and on behalf of all men - I am so sorry some men are rude, weird, and disgusting.

You are doing great - don't let this turkey make you think otherwise.Health Question & Answer

its not your fault
guys are asses.
and hes the DIRTY one.

this is sexual assault

turn him in.

before it gets worse.Health Question & Answer

noo
not at all
its weird when
because it got you off gard.

next time he trys something like that
punch him in his ****
:)Health Question & Answer

he's the dirty one!!!!!Health Question & Answer

did you do anything to him.? he just took it out.? this reminds me of that episode of seinfeldHealth Question & Answer



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