Sex whats a good age?!


Question: Sex whats a good age.?
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At least 18Health Question & Answer

A good age is when you're commfortable and happy with all of the following... and until you *are* comfortable and happy with all of it, you're plainly not ready for sex.

First... you should really be *sure* you wanna "do it" with the guy you've chosen.

You don't say so, but from your question I'm guessing that you're a virgin, and your first full-on sex *should* be with someone you're really gonna want to *be* that intimate with for a while, and I don't just mean the physical intimacy because there's a lot of mental and emotional stuff that comes with the hormones and hangups that fill the sexual territory between partners. You'll be MUCH better and happier for choosing such a person, even if that "while" only turns out to be a few weeks... trust me on this point, OK.?

First-timing can be pretty disappointing for girls, not just because it's often painful (at least at first), but also because nervousness and awkwardness for both of you can make it very difficult for *you* to concentrate on your own pleasure. You don't have to worry too much about *his* pleasure: except for some possible emotional stuff, he's going to enjoy it a *lot* - even his first time. Young men are lucky that way, sure, but it's also a very rare man indeed (but not at all a rare woman) who can have several orgasms in less than half an hour. :-)

Advice.? Tips.? Good things to plan for and think about.?

Make sure you have lots of privacy for quite a long time (two hours or more is a good idea) because not only might there be some uncomfortable, embarrassing or painful moments along the way, but there's more to the first time than just "doing it", and you'll have a lot of stuff to talk about afterwards - you do *not* want any of this to be interrupted.

When it comes to intercourse, tell your guy that *you* will be the one to say "stop" if anything's wrong (like pain, or even if you just chicken out) and that it's up to him to remember that when you tell him "stop".

Don't even *try* unless you're very turned on and very slippery... a couple of orgasms first will also help your vagina to be stretchier and more insistent on having something inside - and if you don't get very wet no matter how horny you are, have some water-based lube (KY, Astroglide, Wet or similar) handy and no matter what, go SLOW until you're comfortable.

That lube will also help prevent breakage of the condom. Yes, the condom. There's a name for people who rely on "pulling out" as a method of avoiding pregnancy: "parents"... or sometimes "parents with STDs".

Any pain you may feel will go away in a few minutes to a couple of days (sometimes there's a little bruising), and after it's over with, each time will be *much* better if you stick to everything above.

Oral sex is also fine any time at all for either person, at least if both of them are comfortable with it and enjoy it. Doing it until the person receiving has an orgasm is nicest, but it isn't necessary. (Oh... and there's nothing wrong with a mouthful of hair when it tastes like a horny woman... there's no need to be shaved unless you like it that way yourself).Health Question & Answer

There is no best age. However, the best time is when you are in a loving relationship where you are both committed to each other, can afford to accept any consequences that may arise from sex and know how to properly use contraception. This is the advice I gave my son because he is at that age (almost 13) where he hears his friends talking about sex constantly. I hope this helps you make an educated decision. Good luck!Health Question & Answer

After 16 is legal but i think yu should be atleast 16 you should be in a stable relationship with someone who loves and respects you and you should know you are ready you should never be pressured or feel rushed into anything like sex and you should ALWAYS wear a condom (unless of course your trying to make a baby lol) i am 18 and i am still a virgin and i'm proud of it Health Question & Answer

No younger than 18, but even 18 does not mean you are responsile enough to cope with the possibility of raising a child or getting an STD. It really depends on a lot of things. Is your partner financially secure.? Are you ready to commit to someone for the rest of your life.? There is no rush to have sex. Sex just for the sake of getting it over with is silly. It is much more meaningful when you share it with someone you plan on sharing your life with.I was 24, my first time, although I had dated many girls in college. Dont feel rushed. Focus on school and career first.Health Question & Answer

That's honestly a question that only you can answer. However, I think that you should be at least 17 or 18 for engaging in sexual activities. You need to be aware of the consequences, such as pregnancy and STDs.

I can tell you from personal experience, that I wasn't ready until 6 months into my relationship with my boyfriend. I was/am in love and it was something that we wanted to share. I was 25.Health Question & Answer

their is no age of sex first of all,when u feel of fantasy that is a right age but i think life is gorgeous so the right age of sex when u getting marriage till that time ur whatever of age.....Health Question & Answer

When you are mature enough to deal with the emotions that sometimes come with it, and to get yourself on some sort of birth control.Health Question & Answer

well if you truly love your partner whenever you feel ready but only did it when you are ready dont get push into doing it if your not ready...... id say about 16Health Question & Answer

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you can do it any age but you have to take care abut it ((protection)) first

good luckHealth Question & Answer

After you're done with high school, graduate college, have your own place, pay your own bills, and get married.Health Question & Answer

What do you think.? If you have it make sure your partner wears protection. Unless you want a child.
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Different persons becoming mature and ready at different ages. Discover belowHealth Question & Answer

I'm waiting until I marry my bf soooo when I'm about 24...he'll be 25...Health Question & Answer

ur to young to have it if you're asking this question.Health Question & Answer

i lost mine at 15. and i dont regret it. Health Question & Answer

for me, it would either be 21 or marriage. Health Question & Answer

it all depends... my mother did at 14 (i know shocker) and i have yet to even though i hear everyone talking about it.Health Question & Answer

i say 16 but make sure your protectedHealth Question & Answer

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