Why do some guys have woman issues? any of u had 2 deal with a person like that?!
Question: Why do some guys have woman issues.? any of u had 2 deal with a person like that.?
My bf (soon to be ex) has a lot of woman issues. He's seen his ex gf's cheat of him. He's always been the 'other guy or lover' in other girls relations. He did that to me, I was with my long distance bf b4, it didn't work out with him so I broke it off. By that time he wanted to be my bf and wanted a girl of his own, so I said yes. My bf's mother is in jail now (has been in and out) and misses her, yet they never really had a good relationship. He's been on the street since a young age. He's never had a good woman by his side until now. I cook for him. Give him rides since his car is mest up. Pick him up and take him 2 work. Take him lunch. Basic stuff people do in relations. I help him the best I can. Now the sex is declined, we only do it once a month now when before it was 3 times or more a week. When ever I say anything that bothers me about him staring at some sluty girl, he snaps and starts acussing that I don't give him the benefit of the doubt. (This happend sat) That he would never do that 'behind my back much less in front of me'. Isn't that the other way around.?. I don't get him anymore. He's sweet when nice and an ANIMAL with his mighty Pride when he's mad. Not only that, he ignores me when mad, doesn't pick up my calls, hasent texted me now in 2 days and when we get happy he doesn't like 2 have sex for weeks when we had a fight. So any guys who have woman issues that have cured yourselves so I can give him some advice. B/c I can't deal with his BS anymore. He's like a glass doll that with a slightest touch it breaks.
No I'm not a mean WOMAN and not I don't want to rub it in his face.Health Question & Answer
No I'm not a mean WOMAN and not I don't want to rub it in his face.Health Question & Answer
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He sounds like an immature kid with a lot of anger issues.
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Wow a guy who is attracted to women and doesn't like to talk when he is mad. Who'd have thought that a guy could be like that.?Health Question & Answer
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Women are often very attracted to men who seem to show a side to them that "nobody else sees". This makes the woman feel special: he behaves well only for her! She can help him! She can fix him!
....the problem is, 99% of the time, it doesn't last. It only lasts long enough for the guy to get what he wants out of the relationship and then start showing his true colors. The woman is usually well and truly hooked by then, though, and makes excuses for him. Well, it's her fault since she didn't fix him right. She didn't make dinner just the way he wanted. She tried to talk when he didn't want to. She bothered him by wanting attention. She wasn't as good in bed as she should have been. Pff!
You can't control him. His bad behavior isn't caused by you, nor is his good behavior. You can't fix him. You're looking again for "advice" to give him to "cure" him. It won't work. You can't find the right words, the right behavior, the right sex style that will suddenly make him a nice guy again, because HE ISN'T, and it's not your fault.Health Question & Answer
....the problem is, 99% of the time, it doesn't last. It only lasts long enough for the guy to get what he wants out of the relationship and then start showing his true colors. The woman is usually well and truly hooked by then, though, and makes excuses for him. Well, it's her fault since she didn't fix him right. She didn't make dinner just the way he wanted. She tried to talk when he didn't want to. She bothered him by wanting attention. She wasn't as good in bed as she should have been. Pff!
You can't control him. His bad behavior isn't caused by you, nor is his good behavior. You can't fix him. You're looking again for "advice" to give him to "cure" him. It won't work. You can't find the right words, the right behavior, the right sex style that will suddenly make him a nice guy again, because HE ISN'T, and it's not your fault.Health Question & Answer
Yes i had to deal with that. I broke it off with the guy we aren't even friends anymore. I think you should do the same. His not treating you right. While he may not be hitting you, its still not fair what his doing to you. You deserve better then that guy, his dealing with alot with his mum and stuff i would say that part of all of this is due to his mum. Maybe she doesn't like you or is jealous of you being like his mum AND gf and then she started saying stuff about you to him like oh! Why are you dating her.? and stuff... try and be understanding. Talk to him about his behaviour and then give it a week and if it doesn't improve then break it off with him.
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Prove to him you ARE A VIRTUOUS WOMAN by sticking by his side unconditionally, but REFUSE to play into his game. Be firm and whyen he starts up his BS you might have to show how annoying it is to you. Always love him and show him that, but be like my grandma was to me when I was young and ornery. Tell him such behavior is unacceptable and make him take a time out. Tell him, "Either you stop this bellyaching now or we stop everything we're doing right now until we resolve this."
A little tough love is in order here, I think.Health Question & Answer
A little tough love is in order here, I think.Health Question & Answer
Sounds more like you're his mom than his girlfriend. Would you seriously want to have sex with someone that's basically taking care of you.?
In all seriousness, you probably need to go to couple's therapy, and if he doesn't agree, I'd probably ditch him, and go to therapy yourself.Health Question & Answer
In all seriousness, you probably need to go to couple's therapy, and if he doesn't agree, I'd probably ditch him, and go to therapy yourself.Health Question & Answer