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Question: Please help.....!!.? .?
i am 13 yers old and stdying in a coed school. i am really attracted towwars a guy in my class and i dream about him every night. i am afraid that my mom will find out . what should i do to stop this attraction.?Health Question & Answer
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what your experiencing is normal. its normal to be attracted to someone. but how do you think your mum will find out.? and even if she does, its not like your doing anything with him, its just an attraction.
but if your really worried and want to not be attracted to him anymore, then all i can say is that you'll get over it in a few weeks, automatically. if not, then just imagine a ugly head on his body, or vice versa.
or think about his negative aspects.Health Question & Answer
but if your really worried and want to not be attracted to him anymore, then all i can say is that you'll get over it in a few weeks, automatically. if not, then just imagine a ugly head on his body, or vice versa.
or think about his negative aspects.Health Question & Answer
Do malatee kriya--
Maalatee Kriya
This maneuver has been named on the name of "Maalatee Devi" one of the 64 "Yoginees" [Goddesses of "Tantra" and supernatural powers]
Step-1. Aasan-
There should be a lonely calm room with soft light and sufficient ventilation. Put a carpet on the earth with a pillow . Lay down flat on the back with legs and hands fully extended. Keep the body fully relaxed.
Step 2- Prana Shodhan
Close the eyes and take 21 breaths. These breathes should be equally timed , full and not in hurry. This is Shodhan Breath.
Step 3 - Kaya Shodhan
Concentrate your mind on the following parts of the body one by one , and take a shodhan breath.
1 Head, 2 neck, 3 trunk, 4 abdomen, 5 Buttocks and pelvis 6 Left hand 7 Right hand 8 Left Leg and 9 Right leg.
Feel that every inspired breath is filling energy in the organ you are concentrating on; and all the weakness , disease and other undesirable conditions are exhaled out with expiration . This should be separately for every one of the above parts one by one.
Step -4- Dhyaan
Now imagine [1]a figure of your favorite "Devta" like Shri Hanuman ji, Shri Durga ji, Shri Shankar ji etc. or [2] photo of your mother , father ,teacher etc. [3] or any other photo, Idol or structure whose imagination gives you strength or [4] a big lump of light ; in front of you and you are continuously looking at it. It is becoming more and more clear in your vision with closed eyes.
For example:- I imagine that Iam looking at Durga Devi who is riding on a Lion. [described in "RKSoniPrarthana.blogspot.com] She is smiling and looking at me and seemingly saying that "Don't worry, I am with you and will save you from all the evils , pains, enemies , and troubles" . And the vast aura around her is throwing energy into me , which is making my mind and my body more and more strong.
Step - 5 - Shakti Sanchar
Now feel by saying in your mind [unuttered] that " Now the cosmic energy has entered into my body and is active to solve my physical and mental problems. You may feel like a stream of warm water flowing all over your body. Now no disturbing element may enter into your mind keeping it superstrong. Now do "Jap" i.e. repeated uttering/saying of "Mantra" the name of God and prayer. Jap can be done either audible or inaudible ,at your own choice, like " Om Shri Durgaayai Namaha". You may remain in this state till you like.
Step - 6 - Kayabandhan
Repeat these words in your mind " Now I have got myself free from the troubles which were disturbing me. I have become more strong, more happy and with more peace of mind. I have now become capable of facing the challenges of life and win. Now I am getting up with much more strength than earlier." You can alter the words at your own choice but the sense should be on the same line.
Step - 7 - Charyadhaaran -
Now get up slowly and have a good time. This maneuver is useful to relieve tension, anxiety, depression, apprehension, phobia [fear] , neurasthenia, tiredness, grief and lack of confidence.
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Maalatee Kriya
This maneuver has been named on the name of "Maalatee Devi" one of the 64 "Yoginees" [Goddesses of "Tantra" and supernatural powers]
Step-1. Aasan-
There should be a lonely calm room with soft light and sufficient ventilation. Put a carpet on the earth with a pillow . Lay down flat on the back with legs and hands fully extended. Keep the body fully relaxed.
Step 2- Prana Shodhan
Close the eyes and take 21 breaths. These breathes should be equally timed , full and not in hurry. This is Shodhan Breath.
Step 3 - Kaya Shodhan
Concentrate your mind on the following parts of the body one by one , and take a shodhan breath.
1 Head, 2 neck, 3 trunk, 4 abdomen, 5 Buttocks and pelvis 6 Left hand 7 Right hand 8 Left Leg and 9 Right leg.
Feel that every inspired breath is filling energy in the organ you are concentrating on; and all the weakness , disease and other undesirable conditions are exhaled out with expiration . This should be separately for every one of the above parts one by one.
Step -4- Dhyaan
Now imagine [1]a figure of your favorite "Devta" like Shri Hanuman ji, Shri Durga ji, Shri Shankar ji etc. or [2] photo of your mother , father ,teacher etc. [3] or any other photo, Idol or structure whose imagination gives you strength or [4] a big lump of light ; in front of you and you are continuously looking at it. It is becoming more and more clear in your vision with closed eyes.
For example:- I imagine that Iam looking at Durga Devi who is riding on a Lion. [described in "RKSoniPrarthana.blogspot.com] She is smiling and looking at me and seemingly saying that "Don't worry, I am with you and will save you from all the evils , pains, enemies , and troubles" . And the vast aura around her is throwing energy into me , which is making my mind and my body more and more strong.
Step - 5 - Shakti Sanchar
Now feel by saying in your mind [unuttered] that " Now the cosmic energy has entered into my body and is active to solve my physical and mental problems. You may feel like a stream of warm water flowing all over your body. Now no disturbing element may enter into your mind keeping it superstrong. Now do "Jap" i.e. repeated uttering/saying of "Mantra" the name of God and prayer. Jap can be done either audible or inaudible ,at your own choice, like " Om Shri Durgaayai Namaha". You may remain in this state till you like.
Step - 6 - Kayabandhan
Repeat these words in your mind " Now I have got myself free from the troubles which were disturbing me. I have become more strong, more happy and with more peace of mind. I have now become capable of facing the challenges of life and win. Now I am getting up with much more strength than earlier." You can alter the words at your own choice but the sense should be on the same line.
Step - 7 - Charyadhaaran -
Now get up slowly and have a good time. This maneuver is useful to relieve tension, anxiety, depression, apprehension, phobia [fear] , neurasthenia, tiredness, grief and lack of confidence.
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At your age attraction is normal. how ever what you do with that attraction will change based on who you are. even if you were to "get over" being attracted to him another guy would come along. what you are experiencing is infatuation its normal. just don't mistake it for loveHealth Question & Answer
do u know hindi.?.?.?if yes than---tumhari age bahoot kam hai..or isee age me ye sab to normally hai...i m a boy ...or yahi mere saath hua tha...aap uske baare me sochati ho..if ur mom is frank with u ...so please tell her...or baat rahi tum attraction stop karna chati ho.....to jab bhi tum uske baare socho ...to vaha se man hatha k apni koi study book lekar use read karo..or kosis karo tum jaror attraction stop kar sakti ho.....ok please try....agar ye karne se kaam ban jaye so please mujhe 1 mail jaror kar dena ok....aa_expert.2008@rediffmail.comHealth Question & Answer
Ask yourself, the answer is within you dear.
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