Queestion about "down there"? It looks....different? Girls only, please!!!?!


Question: Queestion about "down there".? It looks....different.? Girls only, please!!!.?
Alright, this is kinda embarrassing, but down there looks different. At the labia (lips...i think they are called that) it doesnt look....right.
It isn't the same color either. Its more of a redish purple. It kinda...hangs down lower than the labia. It doesn't hurt, itch, nothing. Its been that way for a few years, and its gotten me pretty worriedl I am 14, but scared to have sex for the first time (not anytime soon! I am waiting til i am married) becuase i don't want my husband to judge me like that.
Any ideas on what this could be.?
NICE ANSWERS ONLY! I'm scared here.
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Answers:
It sounds 100% normal! Every female is different down there. There is a range of colors, sizes, shapes, and appearances.
Good decision on waiting until you're married! And if your husband truly loves and respects you, he won't care what yours look like (Many men probably don't for the most part anyway).Health Question & Answer

First, you don't want to have sex anytime soon. About your body parts, don't worry, they are normal. Women's genitalia come in all shapes and sizes, sometimes the sides are not the same. Don't worry about having sex, when the time comes, the person that loves you will not judge you, he will be glad you love him enough to make love to him.

Don't worry, it's all normal.Health Question & Answer

I know you asked girls only, and I apologize, however I am in the medical field and I will do my best to give you an answer. Reddish Purple is simply a sign of excess blood pooling (think of a bruise) and if it has been like that for years it is nothing to worry about. At your age, it is time you start seeing an GYN, and you can explain your concerns to your doctor, in private. However yes - you are correct, it is called 'Labia'Health Question & Answer

You're the only one judging the looks of your vagina. It sounds pretty darn normal to me.
Everyone's made differently. Don't know where you got your ideas of normal from but it probably wasn't very diverse.

Not that you should be having sexual contact (because you shouldn't! not yet). but most men are just happy to have a good woman that is willling to have sexual contact with them and don't really care what she looks like down there.Health Question & Answer

Your inner labia will be darker than the outer labia. One side can be slightly larger than the other side. A man won't judge you by the way your labia look. I know my guy doesn't. You are perfectly normal and have nothing to worry about.

and don't judge yourself by what you see in magazines and videos.. naked models have make up everywhereHealth Question & Answer

Everyone looks different. You sound as though you are fine. You can get information about all of those parts and their names on plannedparenthood.com. You will be getting exams by a doctor that looks there in the future and you can ask them any questions. Don't stress.Health Question & Answer

This just means that you have extra skin on your labia. Its perfectly normal, many girls have this. Its not dangerous, the only problem would be if you have any insecurities, which you should should talk to your doctor about.Health Question & Answer

i think u might want to say something to your mom if your that worried and see what she says i know is strange going to your mom but some times it helpsHealth Question & Answer

Hi there,
im 35, and a woman, and I msut tell you, not everybody's genitals look the same. I didnt know this till I moved out of my house (at 19) and started seeing other girls in college dorms/friends houses etc

If you are Caucasian, you may have white skin, but slightly darker genitals. If you are hispanic or black,your genitals can be much darker. This is just called 'hyper-pigmentation" and that is a darkening of an area (it can happen anywhere) with melanin. Nothing to be scared of.

Sometimes labia's are heavy and hood the vagina completely ,and some reveal the clitoris. You should get to know your body, and enjoy its uniquenes.

I am glad you are not rushing out to have sexual relations, (because 14 is very young - and not in a bad way) but waiting to you are married is not realistic. And trust me, guys love vagina's, of all shapes and sizes. Plus do you really want to marry a man and THEN find out hes lousy in bed.? - I doubt it.

And when you build up a relationship with the young man you do finally fall for, waiting a few months to have sex really allows the love bond to be so strong, and your silly fears about a 'weird' vagina will melt away.

Good luck, hope this helps.
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