Im soso afraid of sex and tampons?!
Question: Im soso afraid of sex and tampons.?
even thinking about it is making my legs kinda give out a little, i dont know why.
never fingered myself or anything like that, im so scared of anything going in there.
im scared it will hurt so bad, and ill bleed alot and stuff like that.
how bad did using a tampon hurt your first time.?
if you put it in wrong do you bleed and does it hurt.?
and on a scale of 1-10, how bad does sex hurt.?
10 being the worst pain possible.
and how much do girls bleed during sex.?
is there anything i can do like..stretch or something every day so having sex wont hurt as bad.? lol not fingering, just like..stretch.?
dont say im not ready, cuz i know im not. im not planning on having sex anytime soon, im just wondering.
GUYS HAVE IT SO MUCH EASIER - I HATE IT!
haha, they dont have to get their period, give birth, or anything like that. so unfair.Health Question & Answer
never fingered myself or anything like that, im so scared of anything going in there.
im scared it will hurt so bad, and ill bleed alot and stuff like that.
how bad did using a tampon hurt your first time.?
if you put it in wrong do you bleed and does it hurt.?
and on a scale of 1-10, how bad does sex hurt.?
10 being the worst pain possible.
and how much do girls bleed during sex.?
is there anything i can do like..stretch or something every day so having sex wont hurt as bad.? lol not fingering, just like..stretch.?
dont say im not ready, cuz i know im not. im not planning on having sex anytime soon, im just wondering.
GUYS HAVE IT SO MUCH EASIER - I HATE IT!
haha, they dont have to get their period, give birth, or anything like that. so unfair.Health Question & Answer
Answers:
Well, I am not a girl, so, but most of my friends are females, and I've heard enough to give to cents about it.
First, on a physiological way, your body knows how to do, so, under the right circumstances, nothing will break, tear or get injured.
With respect to the tampons, my wife says that it is kind of uncomfortable to place, but once it is in place, you don't even feel it.
With respect to sex, well, normally, if well done, it will not hurt at all. Now, that being told, you are suppose to be a willing participant, and be excited about it, and well lubricated, and if your body is not lubricating enough by itself, there are lubricants commercially available.
On the other hand, in my life I've had sex with two girls who claimed to have had her first experience with me (and I really believe at least one of them!) and neither of them bled, but talking to my friends, it seems it depends a lot on the girls body, and also, how careful the guy is. Most of my friends talk about a few drops of blood every now and then during a couple of days after the event, and only one of them talked about significant bleeding.
With respect to pain, well, I think it depends on how excited you actually are, and your election of partner. I have heard only one girl in my life saying that she had an orgasm the first time she had intercourse (and unfortunately she was not one of the two girls I mentioned above), and a fair number of them remember it as a pleasant experience, when they didn't necessarily achieve the climax, but they didn't have pain, and actually enjoyed it. Most say that, although it was not particularly enjoyable in a physical way (it may have been emotionally enjoyable), it was not particularly uncomfortable, or just a little bit. A few remember it kinda painful, and most of the time this ladies don't remember such guys kind of fondly.
Don't be scare of sex, just be careful to experiment when you're ready, and only doing what you really want to do.Health Question & Answer
First, on a physiological way, your body knows how to do, so, under the right circumstances, nothing will break, tear or get injured.
With respect to the tampons, my wife says that it is kind of uncomfortable to place, but once it is in place, you don't even feel it.
With respect to sex, well, normally, if well done, it will not hurt at all. Now, that being told, you are suppose to be a willing participant, and be excited about it, and well lubricated, and if your body is not lubricating enough by itself, there are lubricants commercially available.
On the other hand, in my life I've had sex with two girls who claimed to have had her first experience with me (and I really believe at least one of them!) and neither of them bled, but talking to my friends, it seems it depends a lot on the girls body, and also, how careful the guy is. Most of my friends talk about a few drops of blood every now and then during a couple of days after the event, and only one of them talked about significant bleeding.
With respect to pain, well, I think it depends on how excited you actually are, and your election of partner. I have heard only one girl in my life saying that she had an orgasm the first time she had intercourse (and unfortunately she was not one of the two girls I mentioned above), and a fair number of them remember it as a pleasant experience, when they didn't necessarily achieve the climax, but they didn't have pain, and actually enjoyed it. Most say that, although it was not particularly enjoyable in a physical way (it may have been emotionally enjoyable), it was not particularly uncomfortable, or just a little bit. A few remember it kinda painful, and most of the time this ladies don't remember such guys kind of fondly.
Don't be scare of sex, just be careful to experiment when you're ready, and only doing what you really want to do.Health Question & Answer
tampons are a little uncomfortable to insert at first but they dont really hurt unless u have some sort of abnormal hymen so I would say the pain is like not even a 1 on a scale of 1 - 10. When I had sex for the first time I bled a few little drops but nothing serious. It hurt about a 2 out of 10 for the first few minutes and then it stoped hurting. I was really ready for sex tho, and we had lots of foreplay. My friend katie lost her virginity too early when she was not ready and she said it really hurt. Health Question & Answer
As long as you put a tampon in right it wont hurt at all, in fact you wont even know it's there. You will know when it's not in right because it wil feel so uncomfortable.
As far as sex goes i dont know of any "stretches" that you can do but you may bleed a little the first time you have sex or you may not bleed at all. Health Question & Answer
As far as sex goes i dont know of any "stretches" that you can do but you may bleed a little the first time you have sex or you may not bleed at all. Health Question & Answer
tampons dont hurt. if its your first time it may be a little uncomfortable because the tampon probably wasnt inserted properly but you wont bleed. also for some people having sex for the first time might hurt, personally it didnt hurt for me. you just need to do it when your ready, which obviously your not, and relax. if your vaginal muscles arent relaxed then it will make it a bad experience for you. Health Question & Answer
first of all tampons only hurt if u insert them wrong...u shouldnt bleed unless u r on ur period... n that would be the only time u would use them... ryt... so they shouldnt be painful or scary... u will just need to get used to them... or else just stick with pads...
sex.... hmmm..... it is different for everyone there first time... some girls bleed n some have pain but everyone is different... if u do bleed it would just be light spotting... sholudnt be heavy.... n shouldnt be too painful... maybe more uncomfortable... wat do u mean "stretch"... sex whenn ur ready emotionally n physically shouldnt be to painful if ur partner is gentle n knows its ur first time.... so dont be scared n wen u r ready it will all be good... hee hee...Health Question & Answer
sex.... hmmm..... it is different for everyone there first time... some girls bleed n some have pain but everyone is different... if u do bleed it would just be light spotting... sholudnt be heavy.... n shouldnt be too painful... maybe more uncomfortable... wat do u mean "stretch"... sex whenn ur ready emotionally n physically shouldnt be to painful if ur partner is gentle n knows its ur first time.... so dont be scared n wen u r ready it will all be good... hee hee...Health Question & Answer
Tampons don't hurt. Some people are more sensitive than others so there are various types of tampons. But, I have never ever heard of one hurting or causing you to bleed. Anyway, they make lite tampons which are very small, and they make soft aplicators that are very gentle. My first time was with OB - they don't have applicators - and I had to shove it in there with my finger. I would not recommend this for a first time as you are unsure if you have it in right/far enough... etc. Pick a lite one with an applicator and you really can't put it in wrong... their is only one place for it to go.
Sex doesn't hurt if you are with someone who cares enough to be gentle with you. Just go slow - make sure there is a lot of kissing and petting which causes you to naturally lubricate yourself - and make him go very slow. It feels like a cramp that you get from your period the first time you do it. But once he is in and you are well lubricated it isn't painful.. just akward until you both get the hang of it. That is why I never wanted to have sex with a virgin - I prefered someone that knew what he was doing.
There is nothing to do to stretch. I think alot of these fears are instilled by parents/adults to scare you off having sex. But, just wait untill you know you are ready - and then maybe a bit longer. And, have patience, it doesn't get really fun untill your mid 20s... Health Question & Answer
Sex doesn't hurt if you are with someone who cares enough to be gentle with you. Just go slow - make sure there is a lot of kissing and petting which causes you to naturally lubricate yourself - and make him go very slow. It feels like a cramp that you get from your period the first time you do it. But once he is in and you are well lubricated it isn't painful.. just akward until you both get the hang of it. That is why I never wanted to have sex with a virgin - I prefered someone that knew what he was doing.
There is nothing to do to stretch. I think alot of these fears are instilled by parents/adults to scare you off having sex. But, just wait untill you know you are ready - and then maybe a bit longer. And, have patience, it doesn't get really fun untill your mid 20s... Health Question & Answer
OK, first off... it is ok to be scared. when you put a tampon in, you should have your period, so you will already be bleeding. Don't try without your period as it will hurt when you remove it as it won't be wet. If you have it in correctly, you should not feel it. If you do, then you do not have it in right. It will only hurt a little on the insertion if your hymen is not broken, which I do not believe your is. on a scale I would say a 5 but it really depends on you and how well you can deal with pain. This is just if your hymen is not broken. Other then that it does not hurt to use tampons. If you plan on using a tampon, start with a slender one and make sure it has a plastic applicator. They should work easier for you.
Now for sex. Again, it depends on you. I don't think there is anything you can do beforehand. It only hurt a little at first, I would say a 4, and then I was fine. I did not bleed either. Do not have sex until you are ready, since you will be nervous and you need to try to be relaxed.Health Question & Answer
Now for sex. Again, it depends on you. I don't think there is anything you can do beforehand. It only hurt a little at first, I would say a 4, and then I was fine. I did not bleed either. Do not have sex until you are ready, since you will be nervous and you need to try to be relaxed.Health Question & Answer
Tampons don't normally hurt or make you bleed! I think the only time one has hurt me is when I put it in for a very short time and tried to pull it out and because it was too dry it was painful to get it out. But the pain was over as soon as I got it out. Its just going to be a little uncomfortable if you don't get the right size or don't get it in far enough. Buy slender or teen tampons. You don't have to use them if you don't want to. I still prefer pads over tampons.
As for first time sex hurting, it can. It just depends on how big your natural opening is, how big you partner is and a bunch of other factors including how much of your hymen is intact. I'll admit my first time was really painful, but my husband could tell and he stopped immediately and the pain went away quickly. Its not like you're walking around in agony for days...it just hurt for a couple of minutes and it wasn't severe enough to cry or anything. For what its worth most of my friends said their first time was just a little uncomfortable. No one I've talked to had the level of pain I did.
There is a book I read that does share some techniques on how to manually stretch yourself out so you first time is less painful. Its called, "Intended for Pleasure" by Ed Wheat. Its a christian book, it teaches that you should wait for sex until you're married (which I did), but it has very practical tips including how to stretch yourself out down there if you're interested.
So my advice is that it can be painful, you can bleed, but if you're doing it with someone that you trust and they love you, then none of it really matters. They'll be gentle and understanding. The first time will probably be uncomfortable and honestly not that pleasurable but it only gets better!Health Question & Answer
As for first time sex hurting, it can. It just depends on how big your natural opening is, how big you partner is and a bunch of other factors including how much of your hymen is intact. I'll admit my first time was really painful, but my husband could tell and he stopped immediately and the pain went away quickly. Its not like you're walking around in agony for days...it just hurt for a couple of minutes and it wasn't severe enough to cry or anything. For what its worth most of my friends said their first time was just a little uncomfortable. No one I've talked to had the level of pain I did.
There is a book I read that does share some techniques on how to manually stretch yourself out so you first time is less painful. Its called, "Intended for Pleasure" by Ed Wheat. Its a christian book, it teaches that you should wait for sex until you're married (which I did), but it has very practical tips including how to stretch yourself out down there if you're interested.
So my advice is that it can be painful, you can bleed, but if you're doing it with someone that you trust and they love you, then none of it really matters. They'll be gentle and understanding. The first time will probably be uncomfortable and honestly not that pleasurable but it only gets better!Health Question & Answer