First time nervous help please???...?!
Question: First time nervous help please.?.?.?....?
sorry about the spelling well my boyfriend want me to lose my virginity i thought about it and i think I'm ready for it any tips i heard its painful.. are there any ways to make it fell less painful ...any other tips .?.?.?Health Question & Answer
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are you sure you want this.?.? if you have to think about it then you're not ready. you should not have sex for anyone else. you should do it because YOU"RE ready and KNOW that you want it for yourself. Health Question & Answer
Make sure that you are completely and 100% ready for this. It is pretty much a once in a lifetime thing and I think that it is something that should be special, so definitely make sure that he isn't going to hump-and-dump. It could possibly be painful, it depends on whether or not your hymen is stretched. It probably wouldn't hurt to start out with some foreplay to warm up the oven and get things stretched out. Whatever you decide to do, good luck and I hope if you do lose your virginity to him, it works out and that it doesn't suck.Health Question & Answer
It is ok to be nervous. Don't do anything if you are not sure since once you do it, you can't change it. Use Protection...with all that said. you need to be relaxed. this will help if it hurts. That is why I said to make sure you are ready. For some it will hurt for others it won't. For some you may bleed a little and others they won't. It really depends on your body. Take it slow. If it is hurting, tell him to stop. Health Question & Answer
Well I dont know if you should do this sounds like your boyfriend just wants to get in your pants.
Its your call but I'll help you.. Let him finger you starting off with one and then 2 so you can get use to the feeling of being stretched down there. (do this for a while like 3 weeks b4 you get jiggy with it.)
It will hurt but I think this helps it to feel less painful...
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Its your call but I'll help you.. Let him finger you starting off with one and then 2 so you can get use to the feeling of being stretched down there. (do this for a while like 3 weeks b4 you get jiggy with it.)
It will hurt but I think this helps it to feel less painful...
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Yeah, it hurts, but if you're aroused it hurts "differently", if you know what I mean. If you don't, you will. It's ok.
Here's the test: If you are too scared to become aroused, Do Not Do It. You don't need to be "ready", you need to feel safe and loved. If you have these, your body will rise naturally to the occasion, and it will be ok.
Do not forget you CAN get pregnant the first time.
Once you start you won't be able to stop.
AND... The first time (despite what everyone your age
will tell you) isn't the end-all be-all of your sex life. Sex in later life is waaaaaaaay better, when you are calmer and in settled love. Trust me.Health Question & Answer
Here's the test: If you are too scared to become aroused, Do Not Do It. You don't need to be "ready", you need to feel safe and loved. If you have these, your body will rise naturally to the occasion, and it will be ok.
Do not forget you CAN get pregnant the first time.
Once you start you won't be able to stop.
AND... The first time (despite what everyone your age
will tell you) isn't the end-all be-all of your sex life. Sex in later life is waaaaaaaay better, when you are calmer and in settled love. Trust me.Health Question & Answer
Why do you want to have sex with your boyfriend.? You should wait until you are married. If he loved you, he wouldn't pressure you.Health Question & Answer
as long as your comfortable and you really like/love him, then it should help with the pain. but wont get rid of it.lolHealth Question & Answer