I have a problem involving sex?!
Question: I have a problem involving sex.?
I am a virgin and when I have tried to have sex with my bf but it feels like he hits a wall. I have been told its my uterus and to use a good lube. Well I bought Astroglide and that stuff works great and doesn't get sticky. I am still having the same problem though. It feels like there is a little opening and with a lot of pain it does stretch and he can go in further but he still has never been fully in cause the pain was to bad. Could that be the "cherry" I mean that's the only part I cant get past and it hurts the most. What could it be and what could I do.? Is there maybe a different position that will work better.? Health Question & Answer
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It takes a while to get to the mind-blowing sex everyone talks about. In the beginning, it's pretty bad, and honestly, i don't know why we keep trying. But it gets better. a lot better.
try having him be on top, assuming he's going to be gentle and sensitive. Lots of foreplay can help. and above all, relax. drink a little if it will help. it's going to hurt, for a second or two, but it will stop.
if it continues to be a problem, see your doctor. there are medical conditions that can cause these problems. Health Question & Answer
try having him be on top, assuming he's going to be gentle and sensitive. Lots of foreplay can help. and above all, relax. drink a little if it will help. it's going to hurt, for a second or two, but it will stop.
if it continues to be a problem, see your doctor. there are medical conditions that can cause these problems. Health Question & Answer
When you have sex with him try putting his penis in you with the same angle you would insert a tampon. I have had the same problem. My husband and I have now got the hang of it. That response about the wrong whole was rude and insensitive. You are not the only one that has had this problem. Take Tylenol at least 45 min before. It will help with the pain. also there are lubes sold that help numb the vaginal area. Hope this helps :)Health Question & Answer
try a different position... i had this problem w/ my ex.... when your on top, you might wanna try and take contol that way he doesn't hurt you.. he's hittin your cervix my dear.... My ex was like... 10 1/2 inches so we ALWAYS had to be careful... lol....
P.s, your not a virgin no more.... SURPRISE!Health Question & Answer
P.s, your not a virgin no more.... SURPRISE!Health Question & Answer
No, it's not your hymen. Most likely, you have a shallow vagina and he's hitting your cervix (which can cause bruising there). He may not be able to go in all the way, but as far as I know, that may just be the way it has to be. Health Question & Answer
Okay first off, it your boyfriend has entered your vagina even a little..you're not a virgin. Second off, you just have to take it slow. Try being on top so you can control the speed. Just stay calm and eventually things will start to feel better.Health Question & Answer
Research "vaginismus", you are describing it perfectly.
http://www.vaginismus.com/Health Question & Answer
http://www.vaginismus.com/Health Question & Answer
Take another position sitting, lying side by side, from behind just like animals . Any how the process should be gentle and slow and mild not wild.Health Question & Answer
Wait.Health Question & Answer
are you sure he's trying the right hole.?
.. seriously.Health Question & Answer
.. seriously.Health Question & Answer
Instead of giving you any fancy answer, I am going to be real straight up serious with you. For a virgin, sex in the beginning can be difficult and painful. I am not diagnosing you with this, but you might want to know that there is a medical condition known as Vaginal Atresia which basically is congenital occlusion of the vagina or subsequence adhesion (sticking together) of the walls of the vagina occluding it.
As a nurse , I honestly feel that if this condition still persists with many failed attempts at having satisfying sex , you might want to consider talking to your doctor.
Let me know what you think. Hopefully this piece of information has helped you. Take care and practice safe sex always.
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As a nurse , I honestly feel that if this condition still persists with many failed attempts at having satisfying sex , you might want to consider talking to your doctor.
Let me know what you think. Hopefully this piece of information has helped you. Take care and practice safe sex always.
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