I was raped by my dad until i was 14, i"m 24 how do i make the pain and hurt go away?!


Question: I was raped by my dad until i was 14, i"m 24 how do i make the pain and hurt go away.?
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I'm really sorry to hear this...My cousin was in the same situation about 10 years ago, (now 23) and unfortunatley I'm afraid that kind of hurt and pain dosen't ever really go away..I think at this point the best you can do is realize you've had an awful experience,and try to live your life the best you can. Don't ever think for any reason you brought it on yourself honey..I'm sure you are a wonderful person and nobody deserves to go through that. I truley wish you the best in your life and hope in time your heart will heal. Health Question & Answer

Counselling or therapy can help you deal with the pain. Not having any contact with your father could help you deal with it too, so you can deal with it without fresh hurt being added to it. I don't know if you've involved the law, or told the family about this, but that might be something to consider. It might be a little bit easier to deal with your feelings if you didn't also feel like he got away with it. Or, if you did that, and it didn't really lead to anything, then you need to remind yourself that what he did was not your fault, and neither was the lack of punishment. You were the victim of a terrible crime, and should never feel like you were at fault.

I'm very sorry this happened to you, and I hope you are able to deal with it and move on, good luck.Health Question & Answer

OMG... i feel so sorry for you...your dad is so disgusting and horrible
But anyway, back to the question it depends on what pain...physical or emotional
If its physical, see a doctor
If it's emotional speak to a close friend or family member or even consider seeing a psychologist or psychiatristHealth Question & Answer

i think if you talk to some body

like go see a therapist and just talk.

getting out the emotion and pain you've felt
will make you feel better.

nothing will ever take away the trauma
but this will make it easier for you
to live your life betterHealth Question & Answer

See a therapist odds are the pain will never go away. but a counselor or therapist can help a little of that pain subside.Health Question & Answer

Go get counseling. (sp.?)
It'll help you come to terms with whats happened and it will help you get past it.Health Question & Answer

Get a mob of guys to kick his *** then piss on him. Health Question & Answer



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