Pressure to have sex!?!


Question: Pressure to have sex!.?
my b/f's friends are always giving crap cause we have been together for almost a year and still havent had sex, i want to but im afraid of getting pregnate or caught. we are both virgins so im not worried about STD's. but im in the 10th grade and hes in the 11th. should i do it.?.?Health Question & Answer


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honey, i say go with your heart if you're having any doubts don't then because its not really what you want.

you have to KNOW you want it !

and if you're afraid of being caught don't worry about that you can be quiet it's very easy.
and if you do get caught well IT HAPPENS.

just do what YOU want not what his friends are telling you !Health Question & Answer

You should never be pressured into having sex, first thing. I think the most important thing is to ask yourself WHY you want to have sex. If it's just to please your boyfriend then you are doing it for the wrong reasons and at the end of it, you might be the one losing out. Get your motivation right first, then ask yourself if you want to do it.

10th grade is like what, 15/16 years old.? No doubt it's a world of free choice, but do consider the implications of it - legally, and emotionally. If you do choose to do it, please use a condom.

Another thing - just because someone is a virgin doesn't mean they can't have an STD. STDs can be transmitted through sharing of an IV drug needle after its use by an infected person, as well as through childbirth or breastfeeding (mother passes it on to her child). I'm not saying that you should be extremely paranoid about it, but I just wanted to clear up your misconception.Health Question & Answer

Don't let your boyfriends friends pressure you into doing anything. just tell them to get lost if they keep bringing it up. Its nothing to do with them.

Make sure you always use condoms as they are the only things that will prevent stds. If you are really afraid of getting pregnant you could always consider going on the pill. Better safe then sorry.

And as for getting Caught just lock the doors and be quiet:)Don't worry about getting caught though cause it Does happen:)Health Question & Answer

Only do it when your ready, there isnt any rush. Your boyfriends friends arent the ones having sex, you could always just tell them to mind their own business! Reember to use a condom and look into the pill if you really do fear pregnancy that much. Its better to be over cautious. Wait you are only young xxxHealth Question & Answer

Your both to young to be having sex you have your whole life to do this.Get your self out of school first,and if your boyfriend loves you he will wait for you.Health Question & Answer

Do what you feel is right....who cares what your or his friends say. If you dont want to do it then dont do it. I waited until i was 19 to have sex for the first time.Health Question & Answer

Go with your heart and don't let anyone pressure you into stuff you don't want to doHealth Question & Answer

no you should not listen to anyone do what is right for you if you dont want to tell him no Health Question & Answer

Relax and enjoy the rideHealth Question & Answer



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