Serious question on female masturbation?!

There is nothing wrong with you. Chances are you just need to let it happen. Masturbation doesn't tend to work out when you are just trying it without being into it. Remember your clitoris is a focal point for climax. Of course every one is different but if you can find pleasure there, the rest should come naturally. Health Question & Answer

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Take your time. It's completely natural for a person to masturbate and anyone who says different is missing out in my opinion.

Now you're 20 years old, and even at that age its not unusual for a person not to have had sexual gratification. I would suggest just on an evening go to bed, relax a little and start to massage yourself. Do it slowly and work from their. It's nothing to rush through and hopefully it will be something that you will gain pleasure from.

Once you have climaxed I would think that times after that it will begin to become easier for you. You're nerves wont help right now but just give it time.

also, sex toys can be very good. My ex used to have a rampant rabbit and, well, she liked it lol.Health Question & Answer

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well you have to be comfortable with your body first, touch yourself and know what type of caressing feels the best to you. Playing with your clitoris feels really good, and it may help you come to a climax faster. Of course you can also buy a vibrator, but it is better if you start off just doing it on your own. vibrators are a good addition once you are confortable with touching yourself... hope this helped.Health Question & Answer

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get to a place that you know you wont be found, do something to soothe you ( music,candles ETC.) try wearing something sexy and let your body do what feels right. and don't worry masturbating is totally normal, and you cant get hut by doing it because you know your limitations

god luck :)Health Question & Answer

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either try watching a por.n. maybe or read something that excites you. the first few times your like wtf or omfg this is just werid. but a few more tries you wil get to know what your body ...down there likes and doesnt like and what pleases you and what doesnt. maybe some lotion or lube. would help
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that's funny....you don't even know if you want it.?.?.?.? if you don't want it, then why do it.?.?.? when you are ready it will all come to you. if you are curious to try, then it wont happen....according to my husband you need a man ;)Health Question & Answer

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okay well don't listen to an immature pocket full of sunshine.
it's completely normal , and definately not gross.
take a long bubble bath , listen to music ,
watch porn , get a vibrator , whatever you need to do.Health Question & Answer

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ok listen-there are many ways to masterbate. What you need to do to have an orgasm is to rub your clit. it is your best friend you just dont know it yet. Vaginal stimulation doesnt give over half of all women and orgasm!!!Health Question & Answer

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its immoral, but if you really want to 1. get a vibrator of some sort. 2. look at porn. and a hint is that it takes alot longer for girls to masturbate than guysHealth Question & Answer

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if you are nervous you should just get comfortable with yourself first. you know feel around. it is important to know yourself like that.Health Question & Answer

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female masturbation is wonderful...I love to watch.Health Question & Answer

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Buy a massagerHealth Question & Answer

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Watch porn. Maybe do it with lilac candles lit to calm you. Mind over matter sweetieHealth Question & Answer

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when u start to tense up and its really feeling good then your on the urge of a orgasmHealth Question & Answer

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doing that is both dangerous and disgusting!

just do yoga! or something that is relaxing to you. go to a spa or get a massage! just don't do that! eew.Health Question & Answer

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wtf nicca!! are u on crakkkHealth Question & Answer

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