Why is wearing a bra such a big deal?!
Question: Why is wearing a bra such a big deal.?
last summer all the popular girls at my grade at school (sry not allowed to say which) got bras and now everybody makes SUCH a big deal about wearing them! i dont get it!!!! basically all the girls have bras now even the ones who dont need them EXCEPT FOR ME ! my friends are turning against me too. i tell them that my mom wont get me one but they just keep bugging me and bugging me about not wearing one. what should i tell them.?.?.?Health Question & Answer
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Unfortunately in school it's all about conformity. Anyone who does things differently is always going to be catching crap from those that do everything the same. If it weren't bras it would be something else. It totally sucks but it's always been that way. You have to find a line between conforming and keeping your individuality. You should never sacrifice yourself just to fit in but on the other hand if it's something simple like wearing a bra even if you don't really have boobs yet, I say find a way to get the bra.
Ask your mom if there is something you could do around the house to earn the money to buy a bra on your own. You should be able to find one at Walmart for $5-$10. Maybe you could even do something for a neighbor that would earn you money. Yard work or something. If you show your mom that you're willing to take responsibility for this she should feel better about it. Health Question & Answer
Ask your mom if there is something you could do around the house to earn the money to buy a bra on your own. You should be able to find one at Walmart for $5-$10. Maybe you could even do something for a neighbor that would earn you money. Yard work or something. If you show your mom that you're willing to take responsibility for this she should feel better about it. Health Question & Answer
Ok your friends are being ridiculous.
They're just picking on you and have a lame excuse for doing so.
I guess kids/teens normally does that.
They consider you 'different' because you're not wearing a bra but the others do, thinking if you're not wearing one, you're a kid and can't hang out with them.
So i think you should just ignore them and have a lot of patience.
If they don't to be your friends because of that, then you don't need them. who needs friends like that.? They will eventually grow up later and soon to realise how stupid they were for thinking like that.
If your mom can't afford one then please don't ask her to buy it yet. Wait until when you really need it. Health Question & Answer
They're just picking on you and have a lame excuse for doing so.
I guess kids/teens normally does that.
They consider you 'different' because you're not wearing a bra but the others do, thinking if you're not wearing one, you're a kid and can't hang out with them.
So i think you should just ignore them and have a lot of patience.
If they don't to be your friends because of that, then you don't need them. who needs friends like that.? They will eventually grow up later and soon to realise how stupid they were for thinking like that.
If your mom can't afford one then please don't ask her to buy it yet. Wait until when you really need it. Health Question & Answer
Your friends are turning against you because you don't wear a bra yet.? That's awesomely lame. You could get back at them, though. Start wearing bras from some really high-end line that cost like $300, and when your friends find out, they'll feel like homeless losers.
Or you could just get an inexpensive one. It would cover your nipples and shut your friends up.Health Question & Answer
Or you could just get an inexpensive one. It would cover your nipples and shut your friends up.Health Question & Answer
Just wear an under shirt and say" it has a built in bra so lay offf " they should get the message . and save your money if you really want one if if u go to walmart they r like 4 dolars for kids or small sizes . Spend the night with your closet friend and have her mom take you both and pick one out together . Health Question & Answer
Well if you aren't developed enough then you don't need one. I dont see why wearing a bra would be such a big deal, no one is going to see it. If your friends don't like you because you aren't wearing a bra then they need some serious help right away. Health Question & Answer
well if your like 2 years younger than me (you're probaly 9 or 10) than it doesn't matter unless you really really REALLY want one. annd just tell your friends to stop making such a big deal about it. hope that helps :)Health Question & Answer
if you tell your girls you dont need one yet and to chill, and they still rip on you well they are not your buds anyway,Health Question & Answer