Did i really have sex or not? i think its supposed to hurt a little more the first time?!


Question: Did i really have sex or not.? i think its supposed to hurt a little more the first time.?
me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time a while ago [[we were both virgins]], and after all the oral stuff when he actaully put "it" inside of me, i just felt a little pressure and it just felt a bit weird. and i heard its supposed to hurt REALLY BAD. and i wasnt really looking whne he put it in to see if it actaully went in, cause who does that.? well anyway i asked him if i did go in cause i thought it hurt more, and he said yes. so im really confused, am i a virgin or not.? cause he said it did go in but all i felt was pressure and it was just a little weird, not exactly pain. and ive never had sex before so i thought it was supposed to hurt.? ahh help!Health Question & Answer


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I was with this guy for 3 months and we had sex many many times and i still had lost my virginity....in other words my hymen was still intact!!! as my doctor had stated........do u believe it.?.?.?
ur hymen could be like extra elastic or sthg....or maybe ur guy just wasnt going to the right spot since u were both virgins and probably didnt really have any idea what was going on....like me and that guyHealth Question & Answer

No a lot of people really over dramatic about losing your virginity pain it may feel pressure or may not, you should defenitly have known weather or not it went in though, im not sure he may be honest. next time try doggy style it is a different angel you will feel more that way. you are no longer a "virgin: because you where sexually active with this man reguardless of weather he fully put it in or not.. be safe!Health Question & Answer

Well penetrative sex is how you lose your virginity... but busting your hymen can be a different matter. You never know if you already broke it as a baby just feeling around. I had a friend who lost her hymen to a scout box when she slipped and fell... lol.

Anyway, it doesnt always tear first time either.. so you might be in for some more.. another time... maybe when he is a little more vigourous... or with a different partner. In any case, no need to be concerned.Health Question & Answer

When you are relaxed and comfortable it usually doesn't hurt as much. So no you aren't a virgin anymore.Health Question & Answer

If you don't know if you had sex, then you really should not be messing around or having sex!!! Health Question & Answer

everyone is different. what may hurt u may not hurt the next.Health Question & Answer

Little wiener...Should someone else show you pain.?Health Question & Answer

he has a small penis.?Health Question & Answer

yeah i think u did
but some women it dosent hurt the first timeHealth Question & Answer



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