My boyfriend insist on using a condom. How can i convince him its safe to have sex on birth control?!
Question: My boyfriend insist on using a condom. How can i convince him its safe to have sex on birth control.?
Although i'm on birth control my boyfriend insist we use a condom. I'm not complaining, its just shouldn't he feel comfortable with my birth controlHealth Question & Answer
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Hun, birth control is not enough. He's right to want to use a condom regardless and i applaud him for insisting. He's being extra cautious and looking out for both of your well-beings(unplanned parenthood, etc). Health Question & Answer
Define "SAFE."
Even with a condom you can get horrific cases of herpes and human papilloma virus (warts).
Your wart (HPV) immunization protects you from 4 of the 64 known subtypes of HPV - so you are still susceptible to catch some of the other 60.
How.? (despite the condom.?)
His scrotum (the skin over his testicles) contacts your vagina.
He may not even know he carries these infections - and can transmit them to you and change your entire future.
Herpes and HPV are usually not deadly - but they can be hard to explain to your future husband one day.
Best bet - wait until you are married.
You will have plenty of time to have sex (dozens of years) after that.
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There is nothing wrong with DOUBLE PROTECTION for birth control.
The condom also helps in keeping some diseases "at bay", although does not keep them away entirely.
Best be willing to become a parent as a matter of "default" since no birthcontrol out there is 100%. You both need to closer than just physical buddies; willing to step up to the plate in case of an "oops!".
If you can't do that...then cease this activity and hold off on the physical expression of love until after marriage. Just a suggestion.
101508 6:26 Health Question & Answer
The condom also helps in keeping some diseases "at bay", although does not keep them away entirely.
Best be willing to become a parent as a matter of "default" since no birthcontrol out there is 100%. You both need to closer than just physical buddies; willing to step up to the plate in case of an "oops!".
If you can't do that...then cease this activity and hold off on the physical expression of love until after marriage. Just a suggestion.
101508 6:26 Health Question & Answer
maybe he doesnt feel comfortable enough to go without a condom. Not that you have anything, But maybe hes not ready to be a daddy, and I know your on birth control, but theres still that one percent chance, I got pregnant on birth control, so it is possible. Just respect him for his desicions. And If you want try sitting him down and talking with him about it. COMMUNICATION is one of the #1 killers in relationshipsHealth Question & Answer
well, with all the std's going around these days i'd say he is rightfully worried about getting one. i'm sure it's no offense to you, but i'm sure if you both when and got tested for any viruses it may help out a little bit. but, he may also just be worried about you getting pregnant. birth control is 99% effective and condoms(if used correctly) are about 98% effective.Health Question & Answer
it is not safe on birth control it doesn't protect both of you from STDS maybe he has one and doesn't want you to get it did you think about that.?.?.?
Oh and you shouldn't be having sex with your boyfriend that can ruin your relationship.
only after you are married should you have sex uhum!!!Health Question & Answer
Oh and you shouldn't be having sex with your boyfriend that can ruin your relationship.
only after you are married should you have sex uhum!!!Health Question & Answer
Wow, this seems a little backwards. Haha. Usually the guy doesn't want to use a condom and the girl does! Your lucky! If I were you I would be on the pill, which you are and also using condoms. That way, you are 100% protected against getting pregnant and getting STD's. Plus, whats the big deal with using condoms.?Health Question & Answer
Why would you want to have sex with you're BOY FRIEND with out the use of a condom. Regardless of how long the two of you have been together. Sex with out a condom is a huge risk. oh yeah and birth control is not 100% efficient Health Question & Answer
If he wants to use one, then let him show you the respect that both of you deserve, and go along with it, if it is that important to you then maybe you are not such a good pair together.Health Question & Answer
Be glad, it is usually the other way around. You should always use a condom because contraceptives don't protect against sexually transmitted diseases and nothing is 100% effective except abstinence.Health Question & Answer
actually its not safe to just be on birth control and use no condom and its also not safe to use a condom and not be on birth control...if you dont want a little one running around yet then use both otherwise go for itHealth Question & Answer
Unless you both have been tested for HIV, or other sexually transmitted disease wear a condom. You can a lot more hurt than by an unwanted pregnancy!!Health Question & Answer
talk to him about withdrawal, an using a calendar 2 know wen its safer to have sex...maybe using spermicide..but no method is 100% safe
i'd say you just stick with the condom..thats why they were invented..or try anal hahaHealth Question & Answer
i'd say you just stick with the condom..thats why they were invented..or try anal hahaHealth Question & Answer
Give him credit for being responsible.
Two methods are better than one, and you are protecting each other from diseases.
It's probably best for now.Health Question & Answer
Two methods are better than one, and you are protecting each other from diseases.
It's probably best for now.Health Question & Answer
maybe its cos he wants to be sure.. If you 'forget' or do something dumb then he will be wishing he used a condom! Girls can't be trusted imo... besides half of you ladies would try to get pregnant anywaysHealth Question & Answer
Birth control isnt always the best way out, using a condom and birth control give you a 99.9% of pregnancy protection.Health Question & Answer
Birth Control isn't always 100%, and it doesn't protect either of you from STDs. It would be smart to use a condom either way.Health Question & Answer
I think you should use both just in case.
And I also think you should be married before you have sex but thats just mee.Health Question & Answer
And I also think you should be married before you have sex but thats just mee.Health Question & Answer
ahhh i dont know how people can have sex without condoms and not worry. even on the pill i always make my bf wear a condom. yoou just never know!Health Question & Answer
well birth control doesnt work fully and neither does a condom but if u hav both ur on the safe side..ur boyfriend is right to insist on a condom Health Question & Answer
if he wants to use a condom let him. the more protection the better. plus if an accident did happen and you didnt let him use a condom he would blame it ALL on youHealth Question & Answer
Maybe he doesn't trust you and think he will get an STD. Or he has an STD he doesn't want to admit to.
25% percent of teens have an std I heard.Health Question & Answer
25% percent of teens have an std I heard.Health Question & Answer
You can't be too safe. It's not hurting anyone, so just use it.Health Question & Answer
Bottom line unless your ready for a baby or don't want an STD you should always use condoms.Health Question & Answer
birth control doesnt prevent STD's...Health Question & Answer
ALWAYS USE A CONDOMMMMM!Health Question & Answer
he's not in the wrong actually..Health Question & Answer
idkHealth Question & Answer