Having sex with my boyfriend hurts, why?!
Question: Having sex with my boyfriend hurts, why.?
Ok i recently loose my virginity to my boy friend, well I figure it will hurt at first but when we start doing it more and more it still hurts, why does it hurts every time we have sex.?
he takes his time with me, but it hurt so bad. I had sex with him more than 5 times and never ***, why.?
little help would work
One more thing
when he use condom it hurt even more and without the condom it hurt just a little, why.?Health Question & Answer
he takes his time with me, but it hurt so bad. I had sex with him more than 5 times and never ***, why.?
little help would work
One more thing
when he use condom it hurt even more and without the condom it hurt just a little, why.?Health Question & Answer
Answers:
You might be getting nervous and tightening up, and it also sounds like you could use some lube. I don't know what 'take his time' means - but what he needs to do is start slow and touch you with his fingers, using lube, and work his way up to using his wang. You should do your best to relax and enjoy things, rather than worrying about whether it will hurt.
The whole not coming thing is a bit more complicated. If you haven't come by yourself, then you don't really know what is required. Practice alone and see what works for you - what feels good - then try to work that in with your boyfriend. Most women won't come without specific attention to certain parts of their anatomy - something you rarely hear in sex ed. You sound rather young, so there's also the issue that you might not be ready yet. Some girls have trouble with it until they are a little older.
As far as condoms go, if you don't have enough lube, they often are more rough. Go to Walmart or walgreens or any drugstore and get some lube in the aisle with the condoms.Health Question & Answer
The whole not coming thing is a bit more complicated. If you haven't come by yourself, then you don't really know what is required. Practice alone and see what works for you - what feels good - then try to work that in with your boyfriend. Most women won't come without specific attention to certain parts of their anatomy - something you rarely hear in sex ed. You sound rather young, so there's also the issue that you might not be ready yet. Some girls have trouble with it until they are a little older.
As far as condoms go, if you don't have enough lube, they often are more rough. Go to Walmart or walgreens or any drugstore and get some lube in the aisle with the condoms.Health Question & Answer
I had this same experience. I personally think it has alot to do with relaxing. You are expecting it to hurt since your new at it and the first time did hurt, totally normal. Your probably very very tense. This also causes pelvic exams to be painful for women. I know its hard, just try relaxing. Make sure you are very aroused, if you don't lubricate well on your own then use lubrication. Hope I have helped.Health Question & Answer
It can take a while to get used to sex. It'll get better eventually. It took me about a month of having sex at least every other day, a couple times a day, for it to stop hurting.
Use lots of lube and make sure you're relaxed and aroused.Health Question & Answer
Use lots of lube and make sure you're relaxed and aroused.Health Question & Answer
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try using lube.Health Question & Answer