I dont feel pleasure? help!! ?!

The first thing you should know is that it's not really about penetration. That's what I thought when I was first starting out and I tried sticking my finger inside me but it never felt good and sometimes it even hurt. What you really want to do is touch the outer parts, mainly the clitoris. Penetration is great after you've had some good clitoral stimulation. This causes your body to create lubrication in your vagina and the muscles loosen to make room for penetration.

Dip a couple of fingers into a little bit of oil (baby oil, veggie oil, whatever) and start gently rubbing yourself. Your clitoris is right at the top of your pussy. It's just a little nub. It extremely sensitive so if it hurts at first don't rub right on it, just rub around it then as you go try rubbing it again. Experiment and see what feels best to you. Once you've been doing it a bit you can slide your fingers up inside yourself to get more lubrication on them. Go back and forth, penetration is wonderful but it's your clitoris that will give you orgasms. Learn how you like to be touched so you can tell the future man in your life.

Here are a couple of safe sites for you to read about your lady parts.
http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/...

http://www.teenwire.com/infocus/2005/if-...

This is a good picture cause you can click on different parts to see what they are and compare them to what you see on yourself.
http://www.teenwire.com/interactive/diag...

BTW, the clitoris and g-spot are not the same thing. You can read about it on the sites above. I've never actually talked to a woman who had located theirs. Health Question & Answer

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I don't think you are playing with the clitoris (a.ka "g" spot). That's the part that gives women pleasure when they are pleasuring themselves or when they engage in intercourse. Your clitoris ("g" spot) is like a small penis or mushroom located in the ceiling of your vagina. Don't forget to think sexual thoughts.

Try reading Aztec Blood by Gary Jennings (this is a novel) and pay good attention to all the parts of when a woman is getting sexual pleasure.

I don't really know how a woman masterbates but this is what I know. Good luck!

VIVA LA RAZA!Health Question & Answer

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you kinda gotta get into a zone of thinking. concentrate on only what you are doing close your eyes if you have to and try having a fantasy if that doesn't help try a vibrator they work wonders sometimes or find the right guy to help you out.Health Question & Answer

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You need to be aroused before you do it, sexually excited. and you need to touch the right areas, have a look at this guide:

http://www.livestrong.com/article/12490-...Health Question & Answer

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Short fingers.? Go deeper, maybe. I'm not a girl, but check a search engine and find a good site. That stuff's easy to find, and a lot of people can take it seriously.Health Question & Answer

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*shrug* it usually won't the first time. Just experiment. There isn't anything wrong with you.Health Question & Answer

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well it's probably all in the mind, maybe you need to drink alcohol to lower your inhibitions and that may help.Health Question & Answer

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it's normal people say it feels so great but you can't really feel anything i know cus i've done it :)Health Question & Answer

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Look up how to do it right or have somebody show you who knows.Health Question & Answer

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doesnt work for everybodyHealth Question & Answer

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try relaxing first of all maybe get some sex toys that will send you through the roof! haha :o)Health Question & Answer

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you didnt hit your g spotHealth Question & Answer

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there's no right way or wrong way to do it.maybe u werent wet enough down there. try thinking of something exotic :)Health Question & Answer

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You must be on some sort of anti-depressantHealth Question & Answer

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try it in the ***Health Question & Answer

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