How do you know definitely that you are assexual? I think I am but I don't know. How do you know for sure.?!
Question: How do you know definitely that you are assexual.? I think I am but I don't know. How do you know for sure..?
I mean I like sex I just don't like the penetration part. It seems painful to me how the man is rough with me instead of being gentle. Everyone says if a man cares he will be gentle but I haven't seen any of them truly care so am I assexual or is something wrong.? The men I date usually just want sex and leave me after. They are very very rough in sexual wise. I get to where I hate sex. Am a assexual.? or do I just hate sex. I like men and I would love to be in love with someone that was kind and gentle in sexual wise. How do I find someone like that.? What is their characteristics.?Health Question & Answer
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I would suggest getting married or at least find a different partner who is sensitive to your needs and not only looking to "get his rocks off" however he can and just be rough and "throw down" about it. I would say it is the men you are with who are making you hate sex and with good reason. Take the time to really get to know a person and let them get to know and love you before you dive right into a sexual relationship with them. Why should a man be gentle or caring if he knows you'll probably never see each other again.? Do you tend to have a lot of one night stands.?Health Question & Answer
Asexual means you don't have attraction to either sex, have no feeling of love or infatuation towards either, and don't find sex an enjoyable past time.
You don't sound assexual; you sound like you've not been in the right relationship yet. Health Question & Answer
You don't sound assexual; you sound like you've not been in the right relationship yet. Health Question & Answer
lol asexual is having sex on your own, without a partner. for example, a flower is asexual. because you don't see flowers having sex right.? humans have sex, so they are sexual. therefore you are not asexual, you just don't like sex..Health Question & Answer
WTF!!! A-Sexual is not that.
A-Sexual means your not attrated to men at all.
Or women. Health Question & Answer
A-Sexual means your not attrated to men at all.
Or women. Health Question & Answer
you cant find one
you have to find each other
i dont think you asexual
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you have to find each other
i dont think you asexual
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uhhhh.....
people can't be asexual,
asexual means that you have sex with yourself.
like bacteria and stuff.
nott people!Health Question & Answer
people can't be asexual,
asexual means that you have sex with yourself.
like bacteria and stuff.
nott people!Health Question & Answer
Hehe. I feel asexual sometimes.
But, really, you have to find the person. The fact is, 80% of the men I've been with and 80% of the men in the world don't know what they're doing while having sex, don't know how to please a woman, and are generally too lazy to find out. also, the way men are taught to have sex - that it's all about penetration, or that they're supposed to pound you - is generally not conducive to female orgasm because it doesn't stimulate the clitoris. Anyway, you're not the only one dealing with a partner who can't get you off: http://www.alternet.org/sex/94788/female...
First, be more vocal in bed and tell the guy that you need to go slower and he needs to be gentler. You certainly do NOT need to just lie there and "take it" if you don't like it. Please don't ever let anyone do that to you. You might ask him to give you oral. (If he refuses, you may consider kicking him out. Ha. I think it's just selfish not to at least TRY pleasing a partner through oral. It's a very loving, giving, selfless act.) Second, read some dirty stories online and experiment with touching yourself to find out what you like. Find out where your clit is and you might try directing your partner to it. http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/anat_... Third, have you considered seeing women.? I know it's a strange question. But sex with a woman is truly different from a man - and, for a lot of women, better.Health Question & Answer
But, really, you have to find the person. The fact is, 80% of the men I've been with and 80% of the men in the world don't know what they're doing while having sex, don't know how to please a woman, and are generally too lazy to find out. also, the way men are taught to have sex - that it's all about penetration, or that they're supposed to pound you - is generally not conducive to female orgasm because it doesn't stimulate the clitoris. Anyway, you're not the only one dealing with a partner who can't get you off: http://www.alternet.org/sex/94788/female...
First, be more vocal in bed and tell the guy that you need to go slower and he needs to be gentler. You certainly do NOT need to just lie there and "take it" if you don't like it. Please don't ever let anyone do that to you. You might ask him to give you oral. (If he refuses, you may consider kicking him out. Ha. I think it's just selfish not to at least TRY pleasing a partner through oral. It's a very loving, giving, selfless act.) Second, read some dirty stories online and experiment with touching yourself to find out what you like. Find out where your clit is and you might try directing your partner to it. http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/anat_... Third, have you considered seeing women.? I know it's a strange question. But sex with a woman is truly different from a man - and, for a lot of women, better.Health Question & Answer