Sex question! lol. help?!


Question: Sex question! lol. help.?
okay so i'm 14 and i want to have sex really bad.
but.. i'm kinda "scared"
like i'm really tiny and is it going to hurt.?
and what do i do when i have sex.?
do i just lay there and do nothing or what.?
lol im so confused. and please dont say anything "oh your to young to have sex" blah blah blah.
thanks in advance:]Health Question & Answer


Answers:
I lost my virginity at 14. It is a scary thing and yes it will hurt, sorry to tell you. If you really want to have sex at least make sure its with someone you love. I'm not going to lecture you about it. I am however going to tell you that i thought i loved the guy i lost my virginity to, and i did, but he didnt love me. Unfortunately I found that out too late.
If you're scared or confused, i'm suggest talking to your boyfriend. Chances are that he's scared too. And you may decide to wait and thats a good thing if you do, but it isnt a bad thing if you dont wait. I wish that I would have waited becasue now i feel as if I can never truely and completely give myself to the man i love. Just think about it. Dont do it because your friends are doing it.

If you need to talk i'm here. Health Question & Answer

Everyone is kinda scared the first time.It will probally hurt,and you will most likely bleed a little.At first ,you might not be able to do anything than just lay there.If it hurts to bad,tell him to slow down ,or stop.Tell him not to pull out till yall are done,cause if he pulls out then puts it back in,iw will hurt very bad.Get him to take short,slow strokes.Make sure you do it with someone you love,and im not alkin about the one week love,im talkin about the 3,4 month kind of love.Remember to use protection.Health Question & Answer

I wasn't much older than you when I lost my virginity. I'm 23 now and so I'm going to tell you what I did. I was scared about getting pregnant. I loved my boyfriend he was my "first love". I went to my local health department and got condoms and birth control for free. I got informed about STDs and the consequences of sex. Because despite you can still have to face the consequences. I'm not going give advice on what to do during sex. Because no matter what your first time if it is with someone who truly cares for you and you truly care for them. It is going to overwhelm you. I think for your first time sex will hurt no matter what. Health Question & Answer

i was 14 my first time, yes it hurt pretty bad. as for what to do, it takes awhile to know what to actually do, its kinda a go with the flow type of thing.
i still remember after my first time having sex i felt wierd everytime i sat lol, yeeeeea. but if you do it with the right person it will be worth it in the end Health Question & Answer

Well, sorry, but if you're asking these questions, then you are too young and immature to be having sex.

Do you even have a boyfriend, or are you planning on losing it to some random guy.?

If you really have to ask what to do while having sex, then you're nowhere near ready.

No one ever regrets waiting; many regret not.Health Question & Answer

yes it will hurt
your 14 years old gurll.? what the hell is wrong with you u want to give it up to the man you marry or plan on spending the rest of your life with not to some guy u dated for probly a month or so thats all wtrong im just trying to help you becuse if u get pregnant its gunna mess up your life so bad u wont even be able to get a job at 14 years old i think u need to rethink about this whole thing to youn way to young Health Question & Answer

Okay you are too young to have sex, don't let some hot do pressure you if you have a bad feeling at the time it goes down get out, but like during sex just roll with it if you body feels like going one way do it, or just ask him what he likes Health Question & Answer

if you tiny down there then yes it will hurt but also depends on his size.. also its going to hurt regardless. but if you can wear tampons then you should be ok. and you are new at it so you wont know what to do so yeah i would just let him lead..Health Question & Answer

Being 14 I wouldn't have sex that early. You will regret it! Yea it will hurt and you will bleed afterwards most likely. Find the right person and make sure you are older. It is so easy to get pregnant. And you don't want that!Health Question & Answer

dont have sex. you under educated if you dont know the answers to any of the questions and you will just regret it. but if my words dont convince you atleast be safe so that there arnt any more horny idiots like youHealth Question & Answer

Yes it is going to hurt! And thats really sad that you are only 14 and debating on giving it up! What happens when you get pregnant.? Dont you want to save something special for someone you really love.?Health Question & Answer

yeah its going to hurt like hell.
and don't worry about knowing what to do.
you'll know what to do once it happens.Health Question & Answer

Yes, most girls report that sex was painful the first few times.Health Question & Answer

Well, if you must, it will probably hurt..use some lube and hope for the best!!!Health Question & Answer

im 14 and in no way want to have sex !! lol
but i mean make sure u dont get pregnant !!Health Question & Answer

Wow; let me tell you, I lost my virginity at 13 and I regretted it so much. Don't do it.Health Question & Answer



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