Female masturbation help please!!!?!


Question: Female masturbation help please!!!.?
does anyone have any ideas, i have tried a few things and i can't orgasm.?!Health Question & Answer


Answers:
I understand your dilemma, because I was there. Sometimes I still can't get myself to the big O. My problem is that I'm not relaxed enough. The best thing to do is have some music playing, the curtains drawn, the door locked and in your own bed, the place you are most comfortable. (it works best when nobody's home for me). Not just any music, music that makes you feel sexy. Lighting is important too. I have a small lamp that gives the room a sensual golden glow that is perfect. Sometimes it helps me to read erotic stories, or watch an erotic movie. Since outright pornography seems a bit raunchy to me and is more of a turn off or something to share with a partner, I avoid it. Or try closing your eyes and imagining an experience you've had that blew your mind, or one that you have fabricated.

When you get in the "zone" you can't just lay down and go at it and expect to orgasm. Explore your body with your hands. If it helps, watch yourself in front of a mirror. Find all of the most sensual spots for you to touch, to feel, to look at. Lotions, scented oils, warming massage oils can be a huge turn on. You'll learn all the best places to touch, just how hard or how gently, maybe pinching, maybe scratching, maybe just really light caresses, like if you have a silk scarf or something similar.

I always recommend you find your most sensual places on your body before you bring in toys. Understand yourself thoroughly before you bring in new things. The first few times you take this time out for yourself, don't go in expecting immediate gratification. Don't start with the anticipation of the orgasm on your mind. Focus on how your fingers feel on your skin or whatever is going on. The more you look for it, the less likely you'll get it, and if you do the less intense it will be. (I suggest using a little bit of lubrication, not too much or it's just messy, but just a little to smooth your fingers, and clitoral stimulation)

After you've found all the best ways to please yourself with your hands, then try bringing in new things. Try a bullet with a little bit of lubrication against your clitoris. Maybe next bring in a vibrator, or something similar, but make sure you're using a good lubricant and keeping it very clean and disinfected after use for your own protection. Not using proper lubrication could damage you, as well as your experience.

The number one thing I found that I was doing wrong was going into the experience, looking for the orgasm. I was overlooking the "goodies" on the way. And this works out when it comes to sexual relationships with a partner as well. The better you know yourself, the better you know how to guide your partner, and that confidence is completely sexy! Good luck! I hope it works out! :)Health Question & Answer

Trying too hard won't be healthy or helpful

Relax and enjoy. If it doesn't come, then don't sweat it.

You might be having the female version of "performance anxiety". The more you want it, the hard it is to get!

Being overly aggressive in masturbation could damage your genitals or make it more difficult to have a regular orgasm later in life.Health Question & Answer

Your probably trying too har, sound weird but women generally need to be realxed. Have you tried toys.?.? try laying on your backwith your legs bent and using a rabbit (ann summers) They are seriously the best invention ever. If not try using lotions that make you tingle or heated ones. also try touching yourself gently wile watching some erotica and when we enough then try slowly until you get that tingle then go for it. Do you have any problems when having intercourse.? if not then try the positions that work when on your own. Hope this helpsHealth Question & Answer

Shower head ;)

also, remember that females orgasm on their clitoris, so stimulate that. A vaginal orgasm isnt necessary unless youre having sex, but I assume youre too young for it. Just dont worry about it and enjoy it.Health Question & Answer

One way I get an AWESOME orgasm is I get into the bath tub with the water running, scoot my va j j up to the running WARM (or however you like it) water and I have one that way : )Health Question & Answer

I recommend a site called healthystrokes.com.

Has a lot of good information on it.Health Question & Answer

Are you gently playing with your clitoris and are you nipples sensitive.?Health Question & Answer

play online sex games. Go to google and type in online sex games. Been there, done thatHealth Question & Answer

good question....i just asked this same question a little bit ago....if anyone can help, please.Health Question & Answer

I DONT KNOW LOLHealth Question & Answer

dude get a guy and have sex ...why masterbate :SHealth Question & Answer



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