Is it weird that I want to move schools to have sex?!
Question: Is it weird that I want to move schools to have sex.?
At the momment I go to an all girls school. I really want a boyfriend so I can you know find it what it's like to sleep with someone. I would never get a chance to do this at my current school because my mums kind of really really anti boyfriends and she of douse would no if I started going round to a guys house who I met some other way. I'm not really involved in anything outside school anyway so I don't really get that much chance to meet guys anyway. Is this wrong/weird/ what do you think .? I'm 15 btw and in case you didn't guess the school I want to (and am allowed to) move to is boys and girls Health Question & Answer
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I do think it's kind of weird..maybe because I never experienced the need to have a boyfriend except when I was 12 and eeeveryone around me had one, but that's just because, truthfully, I was jealous, so I asked my best male friend at the time to be my boyfriend and he accepted, no sex, it only lasted 4 days, I wouldn't even kiss him..heh
But enough of straying from the subject, let's focus on you know, I never understood girls that said "I want a boyfriend" "I need a boyfriend" I guess it's normal but you should get a boyfriend at the right time..enjoy these years, the main reason I broke up with my first boyfriend was because it was too much drama, all I wanted to do was play, sure a boyfriend can be 'fun' but don't do what I did and use him as an accessory or just because you 'want' a boyfriend, after that short 4 day relationship I sort of saw how boring it was from my point of view and decided to just keep doing what I considered fun regardless of getting a boyfriend, I was so happy and independent...and then I met this guy, and i had 0 interest in him, but he just kept chasing after me and finally caught me, he has been my boyfriend for a year now, and at the same time the best and the worst thing that could happen to me, he has taken away my complete independence, but now is my strongest support, he is so incredibly immature sometimes! but he knows how to make me laugh, we really compliment and complete each other a lot..and though I'm only 16 and this is my first serious boyfriend I'm pretty sure this that I'm feeling is love, and though it hurts some times, it's also a very beautiful feeling..
my point is..maybe you shouldn't do something on impulse, like get a boyfriend, maybe you should wait and let it flow, and the guy that is JUST right for you will appear with time.
Hope it's good advice, good luck with what ever decision you take.Health Question & Answer
But enough of straying from the subject, let's focus on you know, I never understood girls that said "I want a boyfriend" "I need a boyfriend" I guess it's normal but you should get a boyfriend at the right time..enjoy these years, the main reason I broke up with my first boyfriend was because it was too much drama, all I wanted to do was play, sure a boyfriend can be 'fun' but don't do what I did and use him as an accessory or just because you 'want' a boyfriend, after that short 4 day relationship I sort of saw how boring it was from my point of view and decided to just keep doing what I considered fun regardless of getting a boyfriend, I was so happy and independent...and then I met this guy, and i had 0 interest in him, but he just kept chasing after me and finally caught me, he has been my boyfriend for a year now, and at the same time the best and the worst thing that could happen to me, he has taken away my complete independence, but now is my strongest support, he is so incredibly immature sometimes! but he knows how to make me laugh, we really compliment and complete each other a lot..and though I'm only 16 and this is my first serious boyfriend I'm pretty sure this that I'm feeling is love, and though it hurts some times, it's also a very beautiful feeling..
my point is..maybe you shouldn't do something on impulse, like get a boyfriend, maybe you should wait and let it flow, and the guy that is JUST right for you will appear with time.
Hope it's good advice, good luck with what ever decision you take.Health Question & Answer
It's not weird, so to say. It's just rushed.
It's more normal to want a boyfriend, than to want sex. Put it this way: you don't want to regret your first time. Your first time with a guy is supposed to be special, in a sense.
Sex is a completely normal part of life, but unless you know your stuff about it, it could end up in pregnancy. I'd suggest to take your time and find a guy you really like and who you would want to lose your virginity to.Health Question & Answer
It's more normal to want a boyfriend, than to want sex. Put it this way: you don't want to regret your first time. Your first time with a guy is supposed to be special, in a sense.
Sex is a completely normal part of life, but unless you know your stuff about it, it could end up in pregnancy. I'd suggest to take your time and find a guy you really like and who you would want to lose your virginity to.Health Question & Answer
i think this might be one of the craziest ideas! why do you want to have sex so bad.? i think you should stay at you school and get your horny self a better vibrator .......think about later on in life when you tell people your first time story you know i transferred to another school met this guy he was nice and cute and i had the illusion of love so we did it it was painful short and we broke up a little after that ......GIRL you sure know how to be romanticHealth Question & Answer
id say switch schools just so you can have the experience of being around guys more
however, youre 15 and you shouldnt rush yourself. if you so happen to transfer schools and meet a great guy there, great!
dont have sex just to have sex.Health Question & Answer
however, youre 15 and you shouldnt rush yourself. if you so happen to transfer schools and meet a great guy there, great!
dont have sex just to have sex.Health Question & Answer
No, not weird at all, its normal to want to have sex. But its also ideal to learn how to put your hormones under a leash and not let them control your actions. Health Question & Answer
NO ITS NOT WEIRD, BUT WHY NOT TRY IT WITH ONE OF YOUR MALE COUSINS FIRST before you make a permanent change you cannot reverse.?Health Question & Answer
My god child, you are 15!! What is the rush, take your time and find the right man when the time is right. Health Question & Answer
Not weird... I'm sure it's not as fun of an experience going to an all girls school. I went to an all guys school for a brief time (a Catholic school) and I hated it. Yes, going there would raise my popularity with the ladies because it was known for it's money, looks, class, etc. But all the gay remarks from opposing schools, tough religious focus, and lack of social environment wore off quickly and I transfered to another school which I enjoyed much more and graduated from. It is not weird, but a little odd that you'd only want to transfer because you want to sleep with someone. That is not a good reason. There are plenty of other ways to meet guys and of course be promiscuous. I think your mum is smart for having you in this all-girl school. She is looking out for your well-being and making sure you get a better education (students get better schools and get admitted to top-accredited universities when going to a same-sex school). I know it's not what you want to hear but it's the real world. Good luck.Health Question & Answer
your desire in natural...the girl has the same desires as a guy has for a girl. The fantasy the girl makes is much more seductive than a guy but the only thing is girl never expose this infront of a guy. U as a girl has expressed it that means ur desires are now overpowering your mind. Me as a guy had the same feeling not from 15 years but much earlier age... i always had female desire and fantasy in my mind which was so seductive and i was overpowered by it and my studies got effected. If at that moment of time i would have got a gurl i would have concentrated better towards my studies because my desires are satisfied and my mind is free...
Now as a girl you need to be careful on this...I am a guy but still i am telling you this...selection of a guy is very important...someone should not be with you only to use you he should also talk to you. In all these years i hve found that sex is not the only target of desires...desires dont get satisfied with only sex...the time u spend with your partner in talking having food etc is wat actually desire is...you wont be able to recognize right now but later you will understand. So here selection counts a lot. My first girlfriend i made was on internet and it really went well. We had good physical and mental relationship and it was very healthy.
So my advice is look for guy who is good as well as satisfies u the way u want...u should not be left as jeans...when ever he wants he can have and then keep you aside.
take care
god blessHealth Question & Answer
Now as a girl you need to be careful on this...I am a guy but still i am telling you this...selection of a guy is very important...someone should not be with you only to use you he should also talk to you. In all these years i hve found that sex is not the only target of desires...desires dont get satisfied with only sex...the time u spend with your partner in talking having food etc is wat actually desire is...you wont be able to recognize right now but later you will understand. So here selection counts a lot. My first girlfriend i made was on internet and it really went well. We had good physical and mental relationship and it was very healthy.
So my advice is look for guy who is good as well as satisfies u the way u want...u should not be left as jeans...when ever he wants he can have and then keep you aside.
take care
god blessHealth Question & Answer