Female ejaculation inconsistancy question...?!
Question: Female ejaculation inconsistancy question....?
So I've been in two serious relationships, and in both had never "squirted" before. Then after the last serious one I guess you could say I got a little more experienced in a short period of time, and would occasionally "squirt" with random guys, and when I figured out what it was it almost made it easier. But the problem is I'm in a relationship again, and now he expects it EVERY time we have sex. And now I think weve had sex about 10 times without me doing it...in a row! Is it because of stress or something.? because I've been VERY stressed financially and have a HUGE decision coming soon. He gets really upset when I don't squirt and accuses me of lying about how good it feels reguardless and thinks hes doing something wrong. What do I do.? How can I explain this to him. I may just show him this question after I get some responses. Thanks for all help : )Health Question & Answer
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I can tell you in all honesty squirting is intense and exhausting.My husband also feels if I do not squirt every time he did not please me.I love doing it but after several in a row,it wears me out and I have to lay on a towel so I don't soak the bed.As long as you say you are pleased he should be ok .Stress can throw you off big time,I am dealing with that now-My body is not responding to him as it used to.He says we'll just have to get creative.As long as you are being honest and you are both mutually satisfied,tell him to relax-it's all goodHealth Question & Answer
Just tell him that it doesn't happen every time, but you still enjoy yourself, and you can even have intense orgasms without squirting. Let him know that the squirting is the icing on the cake and not to get so uptight about it, as the experience is what's more important than the end results.Health Question & Answer
you cant squirt everytime, especially if you've got your mind on other things. your guy should be understanding, just because you squirt onetime and not the next doesnt mean that it doesnt feel good. ive squirted during some sessions and not others. Health Question & Answer
That's normal for women. He sounds really insecure about his sexual performance! Health Question & Answer