Sex within the first week?!

Question: Sex within the first week.?

So i met a new guy and i went on three dates with him. On the 3rd date we ended up having sex( I am an adult btw). So normally a guy calls a lot, or you talk a few times a days and they want to hang out. Well this guy is very busy, he work over 50 hrs a week, and he trains for boxing 4 days a week. So we usually hang out on thursdays and sundays. Well he likes to text rather than call, so during the day we text quite a bit, then i dont hear from him for about three hours then maybe one text, then he calls at around 1030. Is that odd.? He seem very standoffish. But he was like that before we had sex too. But i am scared that because i went against my rule of jumping into things that he thinks im easy. But i also didnt let him the first time he tried. So anyway. That happened on a thursday, then we were supposed to get together sunday. But he cancelled because he was tired from work(understandable). So he asked if i was free a different night this week, and i said yes. Then he asked what i was doing thursday, i told him i would be free, and he sent a message that said ok cool.? So im not sure if that means he wants to get together or what. He is very hard to read. So i guess my question is if he is being a hard to get guy, what can i do to get him more interested.? I dont bug him, i totally resepect that he has responsibilities, and that those are more important. So we have been talking for about 2 weeks now, and im guess im just curious why hes not bugging me like most guys do, like calling all the time and all that. Health Question & Answer

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Look at it this way...if he really really liked you, he would find the time to hang out with you even if he is tired from work. Sleeping with him that soon may have been a mistake. He could be one of these jerks that thinks he can just use you for a "booty call" whenever he wants. Don't call or text him...WAIT...let him call or text you first, then cancel whatever plans he makes with you. Let him see how it feels. Honestly it seems to me that he doesn't want a serious relationship with you or he would make more of an effort. Forget him...move on to the next guy!Health Question & Answer

He sounds like a load of crap. I think that you aren't his only women, if he was interested in a real relationship, he would have taken it slower. be careful, don't let your gaurd down and follow your instinct.Health Question & Answer

When you finally get to hang out with him and he expects to be having sex, you got yourself a lousy dog!

Your his bed-buddy. If thats all he seems interested in, ditch him and get another guy worth your time. Health Question & Answer

Maybe he's just not really that into you. Maybe you lost some respect for you when you had sex so early on.
Or maybe he's just busy.
You'd really have to talk to him to find out.Health Question & Answer

a relationship shouldnt be built on sex.
id say wait a few months or even a yr.
then you dont just go out with a guy, have sex, & move on to the next guy.
feelings get hurt that way.Health Question & Answer

i think it's fine but just dont bug him let him hhave his space and all will end well and good , and if not than you weren't meant to beHealth Question & Answer

It's kind of low class

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