I am no perfect person, but I am starting to wonder what happened to my friends missing child? Approach her?!
Question: I am no perfect person, but I am starting to wonder what happened to my friends missing child.? Approach her.?
Well..you see...she is notorious for abortions and if she has done so many of these who knows what else she would do! Well she finally got sperminated by a man she plans to spend the rest of her life with. So problem is, she got pregnant back in October 2007. In May 2008 she had her HUGE baby shower and looked like she was ready to POP....then ...she practically went missing. None of her friends knew what happened to her until I finally reached her a few months ago.
HER and Her boyfriends story is that she had a miscarriage in March, and then she got impregnated AGAIN.....so really at her shower...SUPPOSEDLY, she was only 2 months pregnant...but she looked about 8.......so now she's due again in DECEMBER...with this "New Child"...How should I approach her about this.? She did ask ME to be the godmother....although I am not Catholic...(btw, this is technically the 3rd child she's asked me to hold this title for....)
So...do I approach her about this.? She is coming over tomorrow....and she still hasnt talked to ANY of her other friends...this doesnt add up. I asked her when I first got in touch with her, and she gave me this B.S. story about 'doctor's and insurance companies, and the miscarriage'...
so do I leave it alone, because it is none of my business.? Or should I ask one last time, face to face, and drop it after tomorrow....
-25 y/o Godmother of all these missing children...
Thanks folks.
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HER and Her boyfriends story is that she had a miscarriage in March, and then she got impregnated AGAIN.....so really at her shower...SUPPOSEDLY, she was only 2 months pregnant...but she looked about 8.......so now she's due again in DECEMBER...with this "New Child"...How should I approach her about this.? She did ask ME to be the godmother....although I am not Catholic...(btw, this is technically the 3rd child she's asked me to hold this title for....)
So...do I approach her about this.? She is coming over tomorrow....and she still hasnt talked to ANY of her other friends...this doesnt add up. I asked her when I first got in touch with her, and she gave me this B.S. story about 'doctor's and insurance companies, and the miscarriage'...
so do I leave it alone, because it is none of my business.? Or should I ask one last time, face to face, and drop it after tomorrow....
-25 y/o Godmother of all these missing children...
Thanks folks.
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Answers:
Well she could have kept the weight after a miscarriage, or purposely put more on. Some couples try again immediately (which they shouldn't really do, it isn't healthy for the woman, but they're upset so I can see why they do it).
It would be hard to hide a baby if she really had one, even to give it up for adoption or whatever reason. I guess wait until December. If she doesn't pop a baby by January then somethings wierd. I wouldn't approach her unless she's putting her child in danger. If she and her husband are sick in the head to be messing with people about being pregnant then they need your pity not resentment.Health Question & Answer
It would be hard to hide a baby if she really had one, even to give it up for adoption or whatever reason. I guess wait until December. If she doesn't pop a baby by January then somethings wierd. I wouldn't approach her unless she's putting her child in danger. If she and her husband are sick in the head to be messing with people about being pregnant then they need your pity not resentment.Health Question & Answer