Howcome sometimes I'm not "in the mood" for lovin'!?!
Question: Howcome sometimes I'm not "in the mood" for lovin'!.?
Sometimes when my fiance and I make love I am really into it but sometimes I am not. Is this normal.? I look at him and think he is the most handsome man I have ever seen and I love him so shouldn't I want to do it all the time.? Recently I haven't been turned on right before my period. Is this normal.?Health Question & Answer
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It's normal, don't worry. It can be your hormones. Some couples have sex 3 times a day, and others, once a month.Health Question & Answer
Very normal. I too look at my husband and think "wow" but yet I have no desire to have sex. Woman have no where near the sex drive as men. Don't have sex unless you really want to or you will be setting yourself up for years of frustration and guilt..trust me. I have been married for 12 years and my husband still wants sex every night. It has gotten to the point that when night time approaches I start having panic attacks. It's not his fault but it is starting to be a big big problem.Health Question & Answer
it is called selfish. i was once like that. when i was pg. my husband went nine months with out. and most of that was after i had the baby. we women have to get over our self and just do it. when he comes to u just tell him give me 20 mins. and go take a short shower or bath and relax or watch a moive with him. alot of the times we get so busy in our lifes we forget we have another person to take care of. we are to put our husband before our selfs. Health Question & Answer
I find that when I have not been getting enough space or time alone to do the things I love (like writing, for me), then I am less receptive to my hubby's advances. When I just get done from time alone or especially working out, it's on!!Health Question & Answer