I dont feel the same as others :(?!


Question: I dont feel the same as others :(.?
Im feeling so upset because my friends are like skinny and i feel like im not what they are because i weigh 145 and they weigh 115 and lower. i just feel left out because they do things that i cant do and they don't treat me the same and i don't know what to do at this pointHealth Question & Answer


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just be who you are if they do things without you they are not really your friends if they know you cant do this things why do them they should look for something that you all could do like i said if they do not treat you the same they are not true friends look for friends that love you for who you are an dont try to change for no one Health Question & Answer

I have the same problem I weight 145 and they weight 115 and 90 pounds but it is ok trust me. I learned to accept myself and when i finally did i joined the cirlce again. You need to be confident because if you aren't comfortable with yourself than it could be weird for them too. I have a group of friends. I mean they kid around like "I'm skinnier than you" i just laugh it out. You know.? They are just teasing me in a friendly way. If you feel it is different in your situation you should confront them. Be like i feel like you guys are treating me differently. If they treat u the same way as before maybe they aren't your real friends because friends don't pick out their friends by how skinny they are. It's all about personality. Rememeber I am the same way as you. I go through this too and I am confident and I don't think twice about my weight. I can wear a bikini and feel confident because I don't care what other people think about me. And my friends should accept me for who I am and how I look like. Health Question & Answer

So you're 10 stone 5. You say you have friends and you're worried about not doing things they do.?.? Like what.? Make a list and I bet nothing on that list interferes in any way with how THEY relate to and think of you. I'm way more than that and wouldn't ever ever ever let it interfere with what I do and don't do. I've been anorexic and it's ******* miserable and I'd rather be 145 than 105 any day of the week. I think your issues MUST be deeper than your perceived weight issues. Health Question & Answer

If they were your real friends they would accept it for who you are.Don't push yourself,and most not starve yourself to get like them.Go on a health diet and watch your weight.Every now and then try to do exercises.It could most likely help you loos a coup;le of pounds.And who cares if you are the biggest.Before you can care for someone or feel for someone you have to CARE AND BE HAPPY ABOUT THE WAY YOU LOOK!!!Hoped i helped.Health Question & Answer

145 isn't overweight or anything unless you are short...go on a diet NO FAST FOOD... wheat bread and starch is fine proportion your meals very small eat 2 meals a day then when you can 1 meal a day and lil celery and fruit for snacks and reword yourself with light peanut butter or light ice cream once in awhile as in once a month or every 2 months depending how fast you want results(its nothing wrong with it human bodies are made for that anyways)...Health Question & Answer

145 is a normal weight for a growing girl. It's OKAY. If they are your friends, which I'm sure they are, they won't treat you differently no matter what. Try to get involved in some theatre activites or sports or something you're interested in. Everyone who's there will want to be there (not like in school) so you won't have jerks to deal with. You'll make friends who like you as a person...not judge you on your looks. Health Question & Answer

Don't worry, weight isn't everything. If it really concerns you, talk to your mom and see if you can work out at the gym or start going on jogs a couple times a week. But hold your head high, and don't be ashamed of anything, because confidence looks even better than being thin.Health Question & Answer

I don't know how old you are, but I weight 145-150 (fluctuates) and my friends weigh anywhere between 115-140. And most of them are 4 or 5 inches taller than me.

Be proud of your curves. I'm sure that your friends probably are envious of your body!Health Question & Answer

you should'nt compare yourself to your other friends. you are perfectly fine not everyone is toothpick skinny i know i am not. and it might just be in your genes (not to be really skinny)Health Question & Answer

we are who we are honey! i was also one of the larger girls in my group of friends - it will take time for you to become comfortable with who you are! love the skin your in!Health Question & Answer

try to lose some weight. don't worry about it just do it for entertainment like ride your bike or do crunches, see how far you can go.Health Question & Answer

it's okHealth Question & Answer



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